So i've been dating my BF for almost 2 years now. When we first started dating things were going really well. Whenever I saw him he was always excited to see me, couldn't keep his hands off of me and wanted to sleep with me every time we were alone together... We moved in together in Feb and ever since then things have gone down hill. At first things were good and were excited and happy to be living together. Now I'm lucky to get sex once a week. And if I do it's usually because I'm initiating it. When he gets home from work or when he comes in from the garage he goes straight to the computer. We hardly ever cuddle anymore. It's wake-up, work come home sit on the computer and then go to bed.. I'm really starting to resent moving in with him. I've tried talking to him about it and he just shruggs it off. Nothing is ever exciting anymore. He says he's stressed all the time (the rent increased when we moved in together) I love him so much and I want to marry him but I don't know how much more of it i can take. I always feel like the less important thing in his life and I just don't know what to do... I hate feeling like i'm the only one who wants to try at this relationship. There is an age gap too. Im 21 and he's 35. I'm mature, young and beautiful. I just don't know what I can do or say anymore without seeming like an insecure pest. I asked him once before why he doesn't want to have sex as much and he says it's because he can have it whenever he wants. But when we do have sex it's because I want to.