getting someone to loosen up?

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  1. Jinx

    Jinx Active Member

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    the guy i'm kind of seeing right now is fairly uptight.. he's fun, and i love being around him; he's just very unsure of himself in bed.. i want to just come out and say "you have nothing to be insecure about", but i have a feeling that might make him even more uncomfortable. what should i do?
     
  2. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    tell him what you would like him to do to do
     
  3. Ghetto_mathie

    Ghetto_mathie New Member

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    Slip him the date rape drug and just go for it.
     
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    ^ lmfao
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Just tell him! If you tell a guy he is good in bed it builds his ego and then he shouldn't worry about ever again.
     
  6. huntz0r

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    hecka.

    ed- state as a positive, not a negative. "You're amazing" not "You have nothing to be insecure about"

    It's a strange trick of language and the human mind, but a statement like "You have nothing to be insecure about" is guaranteed to create more insecurity. Don't think of a pink elephant. See what I mean?
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Exactly. I was going to say the same thing but you said it all for me :)
     

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