Getting Setup with my friends friend

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  1. afterShock81

    afterShock81 If I could only have one food for the rest of my l

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    So one of my best girl-friends is setting up her co-worker with me ---she already sent me a photo of her and vice versa. So, the girl gave my friend the go-ahead to give me her email address and phone number.

    So --do you think it would be better to first email her -- then after I find out a little bit about her -- call her? If so, -- what the hell should i write in the email? Ideas?
     
  2. afterShock81

    afterShock81 If I could only have one food for the rest of my l

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    pity bump
     
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    go the myspace route...
     
  4. JJDiri

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    Skip the emails; they are too slow and painful in my eyes.

    Just call her and start conversation.
     
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    call her, talk to her for a few minutes and then act like you have to go do something pretty important/cool, that way you will have the akward beginning first convo out of the way. then arrange to meet up somewhere a few days later, and voila, you'll be much more comfortable on that first date.
     
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    yea that way it doesn't make the first date weird and you can get off the phone when it gets akward or whenever you want
     
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    i would suggest calling her. email might make you seem scared/coward. just have a quick first call, then go. couple days later call and hang out.
     
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    fuck email
     
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    afterShock81 If I could only have one food for the rest of my l

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    so we'll see if i fucked up -- before I got any responses from you(thanks btw) --- i went the email route :rolleyes:

    She emailed me back right away and told me a little more about herself -- she seemed interesting and interested as well --- so i suppose instead of becoming email buddies, i should probably just go ahead and make a move, and call her, huh?
     
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    shoulda called pussy :nono:
     
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    afterShock81 If I could only have one food for the rest of my l

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    so she replied back with this --

    So, where do you usually go out around here? Have you met many people since you moved here? We should meet up sometime if you're interested and check out some of the cool little bars in the area. I've lived here forever and there's still some places that I haven't checked out yet. We could look for somewhere with a good band or something. Just let me know if you're up for it. :)

    She's asking me out before I asked her out ----- i feel like less of a man -- apparently she's a take charge kinda girl
     
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    afterShock81 If I could only have one food for the rest of my l

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    Oh forgot to mention the update:

    I emailed her back saying that i too would like to get together and ask her what days/times work best for her ----

    Just a couple hours ago, she calls and left a message to see if I wanted to get together this weekend-- i was at the gym -- so i called her back and now got her voicemail.
     
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    the alpha male gives her times to choose from, not asks her.

    but it doesnt matter you are going to get laid unless you fuck this up because she is obviously interested. i hope you left her a voicemail telling her to call u back, and dont call her until she does

    edit: alpha male doesnt email more than once, if ever. wtf dude, I thought no more emailing ahhh just fucking call her from now on
     
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    afterShock81 If I could only have one food for the rest of my l

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    yeah she hasn't called back yet -- and i'm not going to call her until she does
     
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    :bigthumb:
     
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    afterShock81 If I could only have one food for the rest of my l

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    so she called me back --- except again, I missed the call -wtf. So, I call her back about an hour later and now again got her voicemail. :rofl: and :greddy:
     
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    phone tag ftl
     
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    Alright she finally got a hold me -- were doing something on wednesday
     
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    cool good luck chief :bigthumb:
     

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