I broke up with my GF of 4.5 years 2 months ago. We had minimal interaction the first month, only saw each other to sort out the shit in the house, went our seperate ways, and have had no interaction in the last month. Its been 2 months but I'm still bothered by what I'm hearing about her from people who still see her. "She's doing this, she's hanging out with this person (guys and girls), she said this..." Why the fuck do I care? I'm genuinely interested in digging this information from people who see her, but for what? I have absolutely ZERO interest in reuniting. However, I still feel somewhat "responsible" for her and when I hear certain things are going on in her life, it troubles me to the point where I want to call her and smack some sense into her (figuratively speaking) How can i accelerate the process of completely not giving a shit? I'm thinking back to other relationships, and 2 months after any of those ended, I wouldn't care if the girl fucked 5 black guys on my front lawn. But with this one, the piddliest shit bothers the hell out of me.