Hey, i've never posted here but here it goes. so a little over a week ago i got dumped by my gf of 1 year who i actually did care greatly for, and felt she shared the same feelings. Well turned out she was cheating on me and about 2 days after we broke up she was telling everyone that 1) the guy she was cheating on me with is her new BF and 2) that i would routinely hit her (which i never did). I know its silly, to me at least, but at different points i sort of get down. not because i miss her, my simple rule in a relationship is "i'll trust you until you break it, then you're no longer worth my time", but because i have no one to talk to or hang around with. has anyone else felt this way before after a break up?