getting over a huge fear v.my first approach ever

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  1. jonno

    jonno New Member

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    so tonight i went out to this bar/restaurant that had a live band playing. my friend and i seemed to be the youngest people in the place by a good 20 years.

    after an hour or so my friend said these 2 girls were eying us. i called BS because we were fucking FAR away and also in a big group of people, the place was packed.

    i decided to start walking closer to them and as we got closer i noticed it... my friend was right. this was really weird because he is TERRIBLE with women.

    so i'm now standing about 10 feet away from her and her friend just drinking a beer and talking to my friend. my heart is fucking pounding :rofl:. i let about 10 minutes go by trying to think of what to say (bad, i know.). well, her friend gets up to 'go to the bathroom' a leaves her stranded at the bar.

    after about 2 minutes of her sitting alone i just say to my friend 'fuck it' and go over and tap her on the shoulder. fuck, i was so nervous and my heart was pounding but i don't think i showed it too much. she turned around with a huge smile and shook my hand and introduced herself. we chatted for about 10 minutes... turns out we both grew up in orlando but she's up in boston for school.

    after some more small talk i told her i didnt want to keep my friend stranded so i had to go... but told her she should give me her number. and she did :bigthumb:.

    i don't care what happens with this. it was awesome to finally approach a random girl. phew.
     
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    Ferrari430 New Member

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    The more you do it, the easier it gets and the better you get at it.
     
  3. jonno

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    :werd: this girl was hott as hell too :o
     
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    breaking the ice is always the hardest part, but like ferrari said, practice makes perfect.

    congrats on the good run though.
     
  5. Ideotique

    Ideotique Drinking on monday nights does not make me an alco

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    Congrats man. The first one is always the hardest.
     
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    wtf dude I thought you were poonmaster flex?

    Either way, Im proud of you. Yaytastic.

    CTP SON.

    CTP.
     
  8. Pringles

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    ehh nice work man! Keep on trucking it only gets easier from this I promise you that.
     
  9. giz

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    I remember the first time I ever approached a girl... it was a group of 3 at a bowling alley. I was just as nervous as you :rofl:

    after awhile, it become natural. just keep doing it, no matter how scared shitless you are :bowdown:
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    i have a raging hard on right now
     
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    good job!
     
  13. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    That's my boy!
     
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    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Weird me too, whenever I notice a thread is made by jonno my pants always get tight.

    I wonder why that is?
     
  15. jonno

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    :eek3::naughty:
     
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    because we're too good looking for girls to like us

    it's adaptation bro didn't you read my post in F&N :ugh:
     
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    Getting her number is a 1/4 of the way in.

    Is the number real or fake?
     
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    Good for you man!

    You sound so damn excited. Even if nothing develops from this, you've got the first one out of the way and every time you do it it gets easier.
     
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    Good shit man.
    It gets easier the more and more you do it.
     
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    my dick is so hard right now
     
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    first one is always the hardest.
     
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    good job
     
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    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    Nice work :) You should be proud
     
  25. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    Congrats :wavey:


    For me I have noticed it never got easier. I am still just as nervous as the first girl I have ever approached.
     

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