getting off friendzoned status?

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  1. tpliquid

    tpliquid Oh hi, My GF has been upgraded ^ OT Supporter

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    Is there a way to get off friendzoned status?

    or is it there forever and might as well pack up and move on?

    i guess i want to know if any of you guys out there got off the friendzone status and actually got with the girl?
     
  2. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    You can get out of the friendzone by completely seperating yourself from the girl friendzoning you.
     
  3. tpliquid

    tpliquid Oh hi, My GF has been upgraded ^ OT Supporter

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    :bowdown:
     
  4. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Seriously though. Either you have a shot or you don't. Sometimes a guy does have a shot but he's wasted so much time not making a move that the girl forgets about him. When he seperates himself from that girl she then starts to miss him and question if she feels for him in that way.
     
  5. Joshua

    Joshua ambition over everything OT Supporter

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    Most of my problems with women stem from me being wasted too.
     
  6. Abomb

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    best way to get off of friend zone status is to lift weights, get some new bad ass hobbies, socialize with other people oh and ignore the friend zoner for 6 months to a year with 0 contact...... and this doesnt always work.
     
  7. TangyZizzle

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    I met this chick last year, never made a move, ended up being used + friendzoned hardcore. I finally cut her off completely. few months later she's living CA with some dude. She still calls, texts and leaves me voice mails telling me how much she misses me. She left me a voicemail last week pissed off because I'm not returning her shit.
     
  8. SolidRanger

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    It is possible, but its not easy, nor is it quick. It basically requires you not seeing her for a long time (I'm talking months, if not years) and completely reinventing yourself, losing those "nice guy" characteristics that get you in the friendzone to begin with, then running into her again.

    It works because basically you have ended the friendship, so you'll almost be starting over from scratch, now with characteristics that will make you a potential sexual entity in her mind.

    But honestly, its alot of work and there are alot of girls in the world, so I say just accept the friendship and look somewhere else.
     
  9. Abomb

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    no, a man can get himself out on his own sometimes but the effort is not always worth it
     
  10. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    IT all depends on the girl.

    The only thing the guy needs to do is to put his intentions out there that he intends to be more than friends.

    Cause a girl decides on first meeting whether you are a person she might date or a friend.................and once u wait too long it'll eventually turn to friend.

    like ppl said.........theres 1000000000s of other girls out there, go find one that actually will say yes when you ask her out.
     
  11. forgotmyname

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    But there is no way to know that...duuuuuuuuuuh
     
  12. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    In my experience, the best way to get out of the friendzone is to put your penis in her vagina.
     
  13. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    and when she stops you, slaps you, blow the rape whistle or call 911, then you have your answer.
     
  14. Abomb

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    hard to blow the rape whistle when constant ryhypnol is involved :hsugh:
     
  15. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    touche
     
  16. tpliquid

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    seems like it all depends on the girl from all these replies.
     
  17. MossMan813

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    I did. I moved down here to Tampa about 2 years ago and this girl I work with was already in a relationship. Before you ask, I'm 25 and she's 27. She wasn't entirely happy, but gave it some chances and realized it wasn't going to work this past summer. The entire time, it was pretty clear to me and her as well that we would be awesome together, but I'm not the kind of person that would make a move on a girl in a relationship, and she wouldn't cheat, so nothing came of it. We both found each other attractive, built chemistry, etc., but nothing COULD be done about it, so we became friends. They broke up in July, and I helped her move out. We remained being just friends through the summer, because I think neither one of us wanted to really start something with someone we worked with. In October, it ended up just happening one night, and it just led to a fantastic relationship. It's weird, because even though we've only been together ~6 months, I feel like it's been much longer from getting to know her, etc. in our friendship period. I don't know if that makes sense, and it probably will freak some people here out the way it all went down, but I really wouldn't change anything at all, as it developed into the best relationship either one of us has ever had, and I truly feel that I am with my future wife. Good luck to the OP.
     
  18. Hahawhat?

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    When girls are in relationships = no
    When they are single = possible

    I was my SO's friend for almost a year before we started to date.
     
  19. vodkacollins

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    my husband and i were friends for 2 years before we dated. he didnt do anything different, i saw him in a different light after 2 years. its possible, though not always likely and i'm not sure there is any one thing you can do that will automatically "work"
     
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    Every major relationship I've been in has started out as a friendship with at least a 3+ year history. It certainly isn't the "easy" way, but after going about it for so long, I find it hard to consider anything more than hooking up with someone I haven't been friends with for a long time.
     
  21. tb2883

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    this is why i put girls in the friendzone first.
     
  22. snoodles

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    brass knuckles to the competition? process of elimination should enable you to jump easily to the datable side.
     
  23. antihero

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    you guys are making this shit way too hard.

    act like a man, have fun, flirt, make out with her, profit.

    the last time I got friendzoned I was 16.
     
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    :rofl:
     
  25. ForgottenSpiral

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    Jesus Chirst. So what you've got all these girls on back-up? What happens when you're single and you don't have a long term female friend to date? You just going to be single for three years while you build a friendship?
     

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