This girl i've been seeing for about a month has blown me off 4 times now when we had plans. Her excuses were: "I'm too tired" "my dad is making me work with him today" " I just remembered that I promised my girlfriend that I would hang out with her tonight" and "i've been an emotional wreck lately and I'm not in the mood". She usually followed those up by apologizing. When I asked her why she is an emotional wreck, she said she doesn't want to talk about it. She said she'll tell me eventually, just not right now. Well, my questions is: should I just stop seeing her? The reason I ask this is because I don't want to be a backup plan for her, assuming that's the case. What should I do? I'd also appreciate a phone call instead of her just texting it to me. I do understand that maybe things come up for people and she could be buisy sometimes, but 4 times seems like too much.