About a month ago I was reuinted with a girlfriend from the past, a girl I now love more than anything. The first few times we slept together it was really amazing--really emotional and the orgasms were powerful full body orgasms. But since that first week, it's been getting more and more repititious. We're both really busy and our schedules are different so it's difficult to find the time to have sex. When we're in bed we just want to go to sleep. Shower time is actually the best time but it's not always the easiest thing to pull off. The length isn't a problem and physically it feels great, but the biggest difference is in the orgasm. It simply isn't anywhere close to being as powerful as before. I kind of feel like the sex would be better if I didn't cum at all, but that's not exactly what I want either. I'm attracted to her of course, but I don't sexually lust for her. For me it's always been difficult to feel lust for someone I've known for a long time. Has anyone else had this problem? How do you get through it? I could try to force myself to feel more infatuated? I'm also thinking perhaps we can take breaks during sex and cuddle for a bit, but of course that requires exttra time. I know I love this girl, but I guess I feel spoiled from that magical first week.