Getting back with an ex...

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  1. AznFreeballiN

    AznFreeballiN mangekyo sharingan

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    has it ever worked? been broken up with the ex 2 weeks now. she broke it off. but she still asks my friends about me all the time. i would take her back this instant. will it ever work?
     
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    Vixxen New Member

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    why'd you break up?
     
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    AznFreeballiN mangekyo sharingan

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    she thought i was still uncertain about our relationship. we dated for 6 months, were together for 5 months. she says after a year of going out, i should be giving her 100%. i honestly dont think i was giving her 100%, maybe 90%. but thats because i've had screwed up relationships in the past. gf cheated on me, $3k joint credit card i have to pay off with her, other chicks that screwed me over.
     
  4. FrozenSTi

    FrozenSTi This site WILL get me in trouble......

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    Need more info. Who, what, when, where, why and how.

    Magic 8 ball says "Doubtful"
     
  5. AznFreeballiN

    AznFreeballiN mangekyo sharingan

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    :wtc: i started to love this girl too.
     
  6. Abomb

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    no fuck her if she is going to pull that shit
     
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    TomBrady New Member

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    sounds like something minor
    id try it out dude

    i miss my ex :wtc:
     
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    FlakBait New Member

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    I miss mine too. However, joint credit card? WTF. Shouldn't do that till marriage.
     
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    :hsugh:lol travis and I now have a joint Best Buy card with $2000 on it to pay off. We better stay together for at least a few more years to pay that thing off! lol j/k. But I don't think getting back with an ex is good; usually, you broke up for a reason. It depends on how much thought she put into breaking it off. some couples do it every other week and it's fine. Do you want to live your whole life like that though, with the ups and downs/drama of breaking up often?
    For me, all 3 times I broke up with a guy, I put a lot of thought into it, like weeks or even months worth. I always remembered that before I picked up the phone to get back with them. You will miss her but over time you'll see you're most likely better off and that there are a ton of girls out there. I don't think there's just one person for everyone; I think there are several, all with their own benefits/problems. If you don't find someone in the next few years, and see her again, maybe it is meant to be. :dunno:
     
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    AznFreeballiN mangekyo sharingan

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    i've learned my lesson now :wtc:
     
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    notsousual New Member

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    No, don't get back with her. It won't get any better the second time around. You will just have the same problems and issues, though they may take a short while to rear their ugly heads again. Once you are done with a person, that's it, you need to be done. And two weeks? That's nothing. Under no circumstances get back with her, especially since she sounds INCREDIBLY immature. Not worth it at all.
     
  12. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Meh, you wasted a whole year not giving her the attention she probably deserved. She keeps asking her friends about you because she still cares and wishes you would probably care enough to fucking fight to have her, not just say you were fine with the break up (like you probably did). You probably only wantr her back because ou just want someone and you know she cares about you. Just move on and let her do the same because I don't see why it would work out again, she'll never really trust you.
     
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    PocoDiablo New Member

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    Her using a break up as a tool to fix your relationship shows she is immature at best. If you take her back, it will show that you are allowing her to do things like that.

    Once a woman dumps you, you should move on.
     
  14. Chris90210

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    Move on man I've made that mistake several times. It never works out.
     
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    Don't do eeet. Never look back only look forward.
     
  16. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    Don't do it after 2 weeks. If you've been broken up for awhile and still want to be together then it might be worth trying again. You've gotta give yourselves time to get over the relationship first though. You're always gonna miss someone after being broken up for 2 weeks but that doesn't mean that you should be together.
     
  17. RuskeR

    RuskeR ReksuR

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    Well if you don't plan on doing anything differently than you know what the outcome is going to be. Sucks that she broke up with you for that... maybe it's for the better.
     

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