Ok first off some background on me. I am 24, have a bachelors degree in Business Administration from a major university and just got an associates degree in fine arts from a local tech school. I own my own photography studio and have my own place. I own my own vehicle (3 actually (07 silverado, 94 z28, 07 ninja 650R) My problem in that I have not dated anyone in over 5 almost 6 years. About a year ago I caught my then g/f of 5 years in bed with my so called friend. Well I took it kinda hard and pretty much shut down my social life. I concentrated on my last year at the tech school and keeping my business in the green. Needless to say the past year has been lonely in the love life dpt. I have had a fuck buddy for a few months but she isn't one I want to date. Thats where I am right now. I want a relationship. Someone to have feelings for and who can have feelings for me. Not some random hook up on a Friday night. I have went to bars (the bar scene here sucks) and a few night clubs but keep getting rejected. I have tried the buying her a drink thing and it works until I ask for a number. I keep my self in shape and do dress nice. I am sure that my main problem is that I lack "game". My problem is I have no idea what this "game" I am supposed to have is. When I was in my last relationship we only hung around other couples and all of my friends were either losers or were in long term relationships. My problem could also be that I go for the ones way out of my league. I don't see a problem with wanting to date a good looking woman. I mean just because I am not some "frat boy asshole" or an "in love with my self gym rat" does that mean that I have to settle for fat or ugly chicks? So what would you do? Any advice for me? Oh yea btw. I have been lurking around here for several months now and I guess this is my first post.