getting a guy out of your head

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  1. BedBunny

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    i have never even MET this guy ferchrissakes, but i think about him every day.

    has anyone else been so intrigued by someone from over the internet that this person ends up consuming your thoughts? i don't want him in my head either, and i don't know how he managed to get in there from just chatting online.
    presently, i haven't spoke with him for about 2 months, but i still think about him every day. i suppose in time i will forget about him, but for now i still feel some longing for him. it's rather fvcked up.
     
  2. itsme

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    I feel your pain, I'm dealing with the same thing now. Only I still speak with him each day.
    Its become a part of my life. It's more of an addiction I believe then anything else. But yeah I feel ya on that one. Its a big head fk. good luck with it!!
     
  3. Trickypants

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    It's me isn't it? I'm sorry...:(

    :mamoru:
     
  4. BedBunny

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    it's not you!
    *slaps jakey upsidethehead*
    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
     
  5. utanthony

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    trying to forget something/someone is a surefire way to constantly think about them. The more you dont want to think of something, the more you will end up thinking about them. Just try your best to just live your normal life and let that keep you busy enough not to worry about him.

    Anything you do to forget him will just make it worse. Sad but true
     
  6. Fearan

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    It's like trying to go to sleep. The more you try, the harder it is.
     
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    ^^^ true.
     
  8. N8ive

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    you have to have sex with him

    im not kidding

    tell him that you need it, and then do it, then that will stop it
     
  9. BedBunny

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    odd advice.... but it has crossed my mind.
    just once and be done with him.
     
  10. Trickypants

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    Ya want it to be? :naughty:

    :x:
     
  11. I can say you'll probably never get the guy out of your head completly....but once you find someone else moving on isn't so hard.
     
  12. bobbarker70

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    thats wierd. idk how u cna do that with someone youve never met. oh well
     
  13. BedBunny

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    not as weird as you think if you get into chatting with someone a lot and get to know them real well. you start to feel a connection. maybe one day you'll know what i'm talking about.
     
  14. BedBunny

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    :kiss: ;)
     
  15. AmCo

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    hmmm lots of work? school? keeping busy!
     
  16. Smoked

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    Get a new guy...
    You'll prolly forget all about teh old one.
     
  17. BedBunny

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    that's not the issue at all. i have a guy, and that is why i want to forget about this one. i actually am not doing anything to perpetuate thinking about this other guy. i don't see him. i don't call him. i don't contact him on the computer. i really don't want to think about him, but i find myself doing so.

    i think it is because i never got to meet him, and i am so curious.. so damn curious.
     
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    That's exactly what I mean.
    If the current guy is intriguing enough, you won't think about someone else.

    I'll let you write love letters to my other half if it'll distract you...
     
  19. Trickypants

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    Well you kind of know my situation...I'm doing the same thing about no-contact, but it still pops into my head pretty regularly. This is why I usually maintain a pretty consistent buzz...:hs:

    Hope it gets better for you Bunny...:hs: :kiss:
     
  20. BedBunny

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    you're sweet jakey :)

    and ya, you do know exactly what i mean. we are a couple of head cases :p
     
  21. utanthony

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    well...why dont you find a way to meet him or hang out with him? im sure there is more to him than just what youve heard from friends or whatever. he could be a nice guy, he could be an ass.
     
  22. BedBunny

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    easier said than done. he hasn't had anything to do with me in over 2 months.
    and really, i want to keep it that way. i don't want to complicate things.
     
  23. utanthony

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    sowwy :sadwavey:




    i love the pearls though :drool:
     
  24. I know how it is. Is it possible to see him at all? If not, all you can do is live life normally, and eventually things will replace your thoughts of him.
     
  25. BedBunny

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    thank you :)
     

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