SRS Gettig a little tired of getting a chicks number...

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  1. Achmiel

    Achmiel Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshi

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    ...and calling them and they never call back :squint:
     
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    start giving out your number. I'm serious.

    Also you're not doing enough pre-qualifying out in the field. You're getting numbers off girls who are actually 'maybes' or outright 'nos' which is why they don't call you back.

    Pre-qualify them out in the field, don't take so many numbers, be more selective in who's number you accept. And ideally, give out yours. THEY can call you.
     
  3. Drifter87

    Drifter87 Yippi-kay-ay, Motherfucker

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    I gave mine out recently not really caring, few days later she called, and now we are planning a 3rd date. Hopefully this is the one that seals the deal :x:
     
  4. Achmiel

    Achmiel Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshi

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    I've given my number out 2 or 3 times in the last 3 weeks... same deal... I'm just afraid if I become TOO selective, I'm not going to get anywhere... It seems the game gets harder as I get a little better at it *sigh*
     
  5. Want2race

    Want2race Fearless

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    I think thats an atlanta chick thing because I get the same shit more often than it should happen.
     
  6. Achmiel

    Achmiel Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshi

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    No doubt! Or could it be a Kennesaw/Marietta thing? :rolleyes:
     
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    Naa.. I dont do marietta.. Im not that southern :)
     
  8. D-FENS

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    I think it's just a chick thing.
    That's probably the number one thing I hate about women. They are never honest or straightforward with you. A simple "no" would be a 11tybillion times more convenient then her giving out her number, then either not calling you back, or going out with you once with no intention of taking it any further.
     
  9. Want2race

    Want2race Fearless

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    I call once, if no answer, I hang up

    I will call again betwen 8-9pm. if no answer, ill leave a message, and my hopes of a call back.

    If no call back.. tough shit for her
     
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    Persona Eternal Punishment OT Supporter

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    you should always give out your number instead of asking for hers so it doesn't make her feel like you are putting pressure on her. If she calls, good but if she doesn't then move on.
     
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    dude... hit me up via PM.. ill set up a hectic evening for us!
     
  12. Peyomp

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    Nope. Never happened to me once. Because like the man says I wouldn't ask for a number unless I know they'll answer, or call me back. Then again, you sound like you're in suburbia, and I'd never ask for digits north of Ponce.
     
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    I dont even ask anymore.. If they offer it, woot... if not.. im not stressing
     
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    And lemme guess: no gf

    I asked my current gf for the digits the third time we talked. I just made sure I saw her again each time.
     
  15. Want2race

    Want2race Fearless

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    wrong.. Just a high turnover rate :)
     
  16. Achmiel

    Achmiel Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshi

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    You're an ATLien? And second, how did you manage to make sure to see her again seach time?
     
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    She went to Kereoki alot at my local bar. I asked her when she would be there again/when she was often there the first time I met her.
     
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    wait a few days after your first call, and try again?
     
  19. Achmiel

    Achmiel Why do we feel it's necessary to yak about bullshi

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    ^^^

    I'm going to marinate on that... So should you leave a message or not? I kinda like want2race's method...
     
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    naa.. the problem withj messages is that girls are then afraid to call and often dont... So.. you could have won.. but wont
     
  21. Peyomp

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    Just give up. With your shit attitude, only a psycho whore would want to be with you anyway.
     
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    tell them right on the spot that "i need to know if this is a number you actually answer". also, get their email address at the same time. they are more likely to respond to an email than a phone call and once you get that going you can call her with much greater success. i read this thing that actually works (field tested and approved). ask if they have an email address, when they start writing it, say "just go ahead and put your phone number down there too". email them in a few days or whatever you timetable is, and then go from there. i like to be the one to qualify them, not the other way around.
     
  23. DiggityDogg

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    It's unusual that I disagree with johan, but I do disagree here. Giving out your number puts all of the power of the situation into the other persons hands. You should keep that for yourself.

    If a girl doesn't call you back, who cares. She just eliminated herself for being too stupid to see what a great guy you are. All you are doing when this happens is getting closer and closer to the girl you will end up being with. Them not calling back isn't a big deal. It's one less person on your way to success. Look at it that way.
     
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    sounds like a good way to go about it.. but maybe spread some time in between calls so it doesn't make you look desperate. call once, hang up, call a couple days later, leave a message. it might show her that you are persistant, and not a wuss who will give up on the first un-returned call.
     

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