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Discussion in 'Lifestyle' started by NgrLvr, Jul 16, 2008.

  1. NgrLvr

    NgrLvr Guest

    One of my best friends is gay. We're great friends and we also work together. I happen to be 84% straight, while hes a burly bear who enjoys the company of black guys.

    With all that being said, do think any of the following would be offensive, coming from a friend..

    - Talking about different "Hot guys" in the room jokingly.
    - AIDS jokes
    - Saying over the top things to said gay guy like "Deep dick me" or "Ive never taken a dick this deep"
    - Asking him to scissor me
    - Constantly quoting Brokeback Mountain

    Hes never uncomfortable with any of it but some gay guys seem to get pissed that straight guy is "joking around" about "their" culture.

    Scissor me timbers..

    /No homo
     
  2. blaq19

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    If your remarks are offending other people I would say yeah you might want to tone it down a bit and be considerate of others.:nono:

    If he is one of your best friends then just ask him and say hey my jokes don't offend you do they, if they do I'm sorry and I'll stop. end

    (seems like common sense to me :hsugh:)
     
  3. NgrLvr

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    Like I said, im not worried about him. Its the other guys, none can take a joke unless its from the mouth of a gay man.
     
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    Well being that they don't like you saying the jokes and your in a workplace I'd clearly advise you to stop before you get fired! If they don't like you joking then you have to cut it out.
     
  5. NgrLvr

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    I couldn't care less what other people think, I just want to know why one gay guy has no problem, yet the rest get offended.

    And fired? Ive had this job for nine years, gay jokes and all.
     
  6. disgusting

    disgusting is this a girl or a guy? b/c i got a hard on OT Supporter

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    are you sure you're not gay? you should give it a shot once to see how it pans out
     
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    Just don't overdo it.
     
  8. NgrLvr

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    Ive never ruled out the possibility...:naughty:
     
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    He's your friend so he knows your not serious, other people don't and may take offense to what it it that you say... what's so hard to understand about that? Since it doesn't matter to you what other people think anyway what does it really matter? Simply your friend may have a tolerance for your ignorance while others don't!
     
  11. Sam Gamgee

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    :rofl: at "84% straight"
     
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    Because he is your friend and knows there is no malice behind you comments and that it is just a joke while others may think you are homophobic and directly trying to insult/offend. It's the same reason they'll accept the same words from another gay guy.
     
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    im guessing your black from your post and your name....so say he called you a nigger, would you be offended? Probably not so much as if some random whitey called you one, right? There are things you can say with friends and friends only because if you dont know the person it can come off as offensive
     
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    Pics of bear :naughty: :x:
     
  16. novo

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    I would definitely cut the AIDS jokes.

    As for the rest of it, I wouldn't be offended unless you really started saying shit you have no idea about, that just makes you look stupid.

    Also, does this guy have a thing for you? if so, i would cut out the dick teasing, especially if he's a bear and could pin you down at any moment. nobody likes to have a carrot :)hsugh:) waved in front of their face.

    lol, i was going to post that :x:
     
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    84% straight? Interesting. So that must mean that the other 16% indicates that you don't mind if the balls touch every now and then....

    :bigthumb:
     
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    I'm in the mood for a bear for some reason... so does that make me a cub?
     
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    geniks king of the hill

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    Whenever I have a straight friend who is sick, i tell them it's AIDS. They usually always seem to get pretty worried.

    I'm not just sure, IM HIV POSITIVE!
     
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    novo Pokey Man OT Supporter

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    you're only a cub if you identify as one, so that's up to you.

    but if you want a bear, grow some facial hair. they love it..some require it.
     
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    Facial hair and I do not get along... :o
     
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    I thought you were gay!
     
  23. NgrLvr

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    Fail
     
  24. Sam Gamgee

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    I require it...
    I cannot find myself as attracted to a guy if he doesn't have some kind of facial hair.
     
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    I'm going to put my nut hair on your face later!
     

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