hey OT whats up? i need some help with something, and im sure you all can. sorry for the semi long post, cliffs at bottom. The problem is that i can't seem to trust any girls. it all goes back to my EX. we were dating about a year ago, and she ended up cheating on me once, and i was stupid enough to keep her. well, big mistake. she went on winter vacation to another city, and ended up cheating on me again. so as you can see, I have a thing about trusting girls. now forward to this year.. Just met this wonderful girl, and weve been going out for about 2 months now, and everything is fine. but i cant seem to 100% trust her. for example, the other week she met up with her old friend and she had called me and told me she was going to some older guys house (he was around 25, we are juniors in highschool) who buys younger teenagers alcohol and lets them drink etc. for some reason this whole idea pissed me off. she didnt do anyting with the guy, but i was still angry. so a few hours ago she texts me and says, "so i think you should hangout with your friends tonight, do whatever they want to do." which for some reason just puts a knot in my stomach. so my question is, how do I build up trust? i cant stand being like this, i keep telling myself that its nothing and just me being insecure. Cliffs: old GF cheated twice, i have no more trust in girls. new wonderful girlfriend, still cant 100% trust her.