here's a little (brief) background... g/f & I have been together for 6 years now, live together, I'm 24, she's 23 etc... We don't really fight all that much, but if we do, it's 99% of time time a result of someone from her family. She's the type of person who can't say NO to someone & it really bugs me .... a lot, b/c people in her family walk all over her ALL THE TIME. They pretty much call & ask her bullshit favors (bitch work) & know she will say yes. -the sister in law is the main culprit. she's pretty much white trash & lazy & wants my g/f to taxi her kids all over the place, which is completely out of her way. my g/f works full time & school full time, so doesn't really have time for this bs, yet she can't say no. -she's lazy & won't buy xmas presents for her kids, so she has my g/f do it & says she'll "pay her back" -she has my g/f buy her kids school supplies b/c she "can't afford it", yet she gets her nails done around the same time & smokes like crazy. -lots of taxi'ing people around, even if it's like a 3 hour total round trip. -her sister put like $3k or $4k on her credit card, which was like 26% APR & would pay her back like $50 here, $50 there, then my g/f would come asking me for money b/c she couldnt pay her bills. -sister used to live w/ us & would go shopping non-stop & come home w/ bags & bags of new clothes but "didn't have money to help on the bills" I don't really like the fact that she is such a pushover w/ people...I just wish she would say "no" to these bullshit favors.