G/F problem? Maybe?

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  1. JaxFlJon

    JaxFlJon Guest

    Ok so everyone here prolly remembers me and I'm back with new problems.
    I have been reading my G/F's emails and she has been writing her ex bf.

    In a series of emails she wrote:
    Well next time you do come up, give me a call. Maybe we can hang out.

    I ofcourse was not told about her talking to her ex bf, and she went out of her way to close her email webpage so I could not see that she had been emailing her ex. Even though I know her password and can check it anytime. She knows my password too.

    I even had a line of questioning to see if she would admit to speaking to her ex and she didnt admit to it.

    Although she said that she still loved me.

    But, she is not being honest with me so that doesn't sit very well with me.

    Suggestions?

    Should I come out and say "I've been reading your emails, what the hell is going on?" or similar?

    We'll have been together 2 yrs this march.
     
  2. RedDawg

    RedDawg Well-Known Member

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    I get emails/IMs from my ex once every couple months and we say the same thing "we should hang out next time i'm in town" or whatever. It'll never happen, i think its just one of those polite social situations where you suggest it but you both know it will never really happen. She might not bring it up to you because she knows you will freak out. You shouldn't check her email unless she gives you permission to, that's only going to cause problems.
     
  3. JaxFlJon

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    She had pictures of him up and not me for over 1.5 years that we were dating... :noes:
     
  4. PocoDiablo

    PocoDiablo New Member

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    Actions speak louder than words...

    I'd be a little upset.
     
  5. Pringles

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    well as learning from my last situation. If you are every questoning the honesty of your mate then you need to sit down and talk with her about it. Because I started to not trust her and it went down from there. I thought she could re-earn it and you cant.
     
  6. Icuradik

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    I would expect my gf to talk to me about it and even joke maybe that he wanted to get back with her. Hiding it like she is, is the worst thing she can do. End it.
     
  7. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    Normally I go with the rule that lying is about the worst thing you can do in a relationship and basically destroys any trust I had in the person, but in this instance you were shifty in the first place by invading her privacy so it's a little shady...
     
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    that's a little weird, you need to have a talk with your g/f.
     

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