FRK g/f only watches gay porn... does it mean anything?

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  1. hiphemo

    hiphemo New Member

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    been with my girlfriend for a long time and she doesn't watch porn very often, maybe once or twice a week when I am away but when she does, all she watches is gay porn.

    when we met she told me this and I asked her why and she said something about how gay porn seems more intimate than straight porn. she says in straight porn the girls all seem like they are faking it.

    anyways I have been thinking about it lately and I was wondering if it meant anything like she wants to see me with a guy or something. I am slightly bi curious so this might be fun but I don't want to bring it up if there is most likely nothing to it. I don't like to push her too much sexually because i did that too much at the beginning of our relationship and she didn't like it.
     
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    ya it means she likes gay porn
     
  3. Sam Gamgee

    Sam Gamgee Every tool is a weapon if you hold it right. OT Supporter

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    So, I'm checking out your past threads, and I think you may be a little more than "slightly" bi-curious, but that's another story for another thread, I'm sure.

    My experience with women is that many/most love gay porn a lot more than straight porn... I'm not sure why, though... some love the taboo-ness of it. Some love that men, who should be the "predator" in the sex act, are in the more "prey" role... and women find that to be very sexy.

    I think this is a conversation you should be having with her, however, than with strangers on OT. Open communication is key, especially when it comes to the bedroom and desires/fantasies.
     
  4. RougeOgre

    RougeOgre FS Librarian and MOD

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    Unless you think she is not being sincere about this ^^, I'd say just enjoy the benefits :naughty:
     
  5. hiphemo

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    if you read the last part I just wanted OT's opinion on the matter before I think about bringing it up with her.
     
  6. hiphemo

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    I don't get to enjoy the benefits, she doesn't like watching porn when I am around!
     
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    I'm straight but I prefer watching lesbo porn. Why look at dicks if you can have all the moaning with twice the vags???? Maybe your SO feels kind of the same but the other way around.
     
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    It means she likes DICK and may want you to suck one...OR take one in the ass.

    OR she's just turned on by two guys going at it :)
     
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    Ah... I thought perhaps she used it as an appetizer :o
     
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    Ahh, see I was going to agree with Rouge, but this changes things a bit. Personally, I feel pornography is okay and very healthy, however, when it affects the relationship, it is not healthy.

    The best suggestion I can give is communicate your feelings and even your interest in it, if that is what she wants. It is important to get these things out in the open. It should be noted as well that just because she likes watching gay porn, does not necessarily mean she wants a threesome. Sometimes there are things that turn us on in shows or in our head that we would never want to actually do. Best thing to do is ask her what she is wanting and state how her actions are effecting your relationship
     
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    i can understand you wanting others' opinions but the only way you're going to know for sure is if you talk to *her*

    i'm not one to give advice often, but it feels like you're afraid to talk to her about stuff and imo that's not good in a relationship. further, asking her about her choices isn't pushing her into something, it's asking her what she likes and why she likes it. do you honestly feel that asking her about her sexual interests is pushing her sexually? like i said before, i'm not sure that's the best thing in a relationship. just my 2c
     
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    it means your GF likes watching gay porn. that's about all we can intelligently tell you. talk to her.
     
  13. DarkAngel19

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    I'd agree completely with Sam, at least this is mostly true for me. I like gay porn, mostly because it's two dicks and I love the cock... and also because I like the man to get fucked once in a while. I also am completely turned off by porn chicks (and I realize that men believe whatever they want and don't see the problem!). However, when a girl is slapping her vagina and moaning "Oh yeah, god yeah..." all I can think of is "Jesus that would hurt, why do men think women like this?" Fake orgasms, fake tits, fake faces... it's so distracting to me that I like to remove the woman from the equation all together.

    I hope that helps!

    DA
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    :o i for one like getting my vagina slapped. :o
     
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    PE as soon as I wrote that I was thinking that you were going to come in here and give me the smackdown!

    Ah, it's good to be back...:bowdown:

    DA
     
  16. razi

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    why don't you watch it together with her?

    it's obvious you two need to do a lot of communicating.
     
  17. hiphemo

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    That definitely helped, I think she is the same way.
     
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    all the more reason to share. hopefully, it'll make her more comfortable discussing things.
     
  20. DarkAngel19

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    Probably, bro. Lots of women are like that, but it's not like our boyfriends will watch gay porn, so we have to suck it up and watch the hilarity of straight porn. It's a pity, because some of it is really horrible:)

    Don't sweat it, seriously. Be glad that she a) watches porn, and b) has standards.

    DA
     
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    teh bf and i had quite a time finding some mutually pleasing pron tonight.
    he likes vanilla pron and i'm into *less mainstream pron,* shall we say :mamoru:
    guess that means we'll have to keep searching :naughty:
    and since we communicate well, i'm looking forward to what the future holds as we explore together :noes:
     
  22. DarkAngel19

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    Sweet! If you find quality, then that's awesome. I just can't take some of the really awful stuff, where you can tell that the woman is in such terrible pain from fucking with no lube, and the guys just tell themselves that they are moaning with pleasure:) At least my SO does.

    If you find some good stuff, let us know! I love that you are exploring your kinky side:)

    DA
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

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    I think gay men porn is really hot. Why? Because I want literally nothing to do with women. Literally, nothing about watching them in porn does anything for me, in fact I usually don't even see them because I block them out. There's 2 dicks in the equation which means more penetration, which is what usually turns me on most :dunno:

    And she's right, I hate seeing how uninterested, fake and coked up most girls in porn look.
     
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    :werd:

    Nicely put, that is exactly what I feel as well.

    DA
     
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    I don't see how the acting in gay porn could be any better. It sounds like she's just insecure to me. I used to only watch lesbian porn because I thought it was gay to watch porn with guys in it. I love my logic... watching homosexual porn so I wouldn't be a homo. But then I grew up. A girl needs a guy to fuck her, another girl just doesn't cut it. I don't admire the guys, but I don't block them out either because I'm insecure or I think they're "bad actors" :hsugh:. It's porn I'm not watching it for the acting. If you don't like the acting get better porn.

    But whatever floats her boat.
     
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