g/f of 3 years ended relationship

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  1. suckafuhreak

    suckafuhreak New Member

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    i loved this girl for three years. but then broke up with me. we are just friends and she has moved on. she has a new bf. i really want to beat his ass. i threatened to kill the s.o.b. he's still afraid of me cuz he knows i will kill the bastard. well what i wanted to know is if i should stay close to her or forget about her? i still give her hugs and kisses on the cheek/forehead. that's how close we still are... whatcha'll think is the best between us?
     
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    do you really think you can be her friend and be civil and not bitter? doubtful.

    move on.
     
  3. LeftRightLeft

    LeftRightLeft OT Supporter

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    for now.. stay away..

    friendship will come later
     
  4. sounds like you have some anger issues...
     
  5. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    stay away and maybe later on you can be friends (from exp.)
     
  6. cwm

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    Stay away until you figure it out for yourself... if you can't see her without wanting to kick her BFs ass then you have some issues that only you can address.
     
  7. ImDrunkAgain

    ImDrunkAgain Resident Mental Health Counselor

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    stay away and dont be such a child about her dating someone else. Unless he has done something to you personally, dont bother with him, because its not worth it. If she felt that your relationship wasnt going anywhere, and wanted to be with him, thats her fault. However, if you do stay friends with her, dont do that hug/kiss shit, because that will just keep your feelings for her the same, and you dont want to be back with that shit, cuz she will play you
     
  8. Reign

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    Me, I'd stay away. Just seeing someone with the person I used to be with, unless I broke up with them and didn't care about them any longer, would tear me to pieces.
     
  9. RoblesGT

    RoblesGT [Track Days: 19 ][Crashes: 1] [SuMo Days: 1 ][Cras OT Supporter

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    from my own experience, stay away, cut communication for now, you need to get over her and seeing her on a daily basis or just too often will not allow your mind/heart to move on ... :hs:
     
  10. LS Boy

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    yea let her go.....in the long run, youll be better off
     
  11. Mugwump

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    I think she's a lousy girlfriend if she lets ex-boyfriends remain friends yet threaten current boyfriends. :down:

    P.S. To her, you're just a cock in a glass case that reads "In case of emergency, break glass."
     
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    Fantastic Post :bigthumb:
     
  13. Mugwump

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    Not that there's anything wrong with that, unless he still has feelings for her, which he does. And she still sucks for treating her current BF like that. That shit wouldn't fly if an ex-girlfriend of mine was threatening my current girlfriend, unless of course it involved bikini wrestling...
     
  14. XtremelyCanadian

    XtremelyCanadian I play hockey.....EH

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    Don't be the stupid ex-boyfriend, act like you don't even care, cut all communication.
     
  15. Spartus

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    try to keep yourself occupied with friends and activites. stay away from her and try not to think of her as much as possible. if you do this for long enough, you'll eventually not care anymore. when you find a new chick, you'll def. not care! stay strong...
     
  16. Neo22

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    wow thats like 9 posts in a row saying to leave her alone and move on. What does that mean?
     

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