Dating for 3 years, currently broken up, doing our best to work it out. She's 20 and i'm 23 I'm having trouble accepting this is my problem. As much i just wanna say fine do as you please, i simply can't. She's told me that i can't possibly fulfill her every need and especially not her need for social interaction. But wouldn't that be the definition of "the one" for her? Shouldn't she be shooting for someone that can hold her interest alot better than i can? She's a social butterfly, she loves to enjoy herself, she loves to talk, and she loves to flirt. I'm actually perfectly fine with her flirting but she does refrain from getting too sexually suggestive. The first time she met a guy from a car forum, didn't ask me how i felt but did tell me what she was doing. Didn't really like that but atleast she told me. Second time she met a guy from an offtopic forum like this, told me and asked how i felt and everything went smooth. Third time was a little bit more rocky but the initial meeting i was generally ok with. Fourth time she didn't ask me how i felt again, didn't feel she should have to ask my feelings in the matter and said she simply forgot. Two of those encounters almost turned into romantic encounters and hid some things from me which dwindled my trust significantly. I feel like she's dating, not necessarily to meet potential lovers/boyfriends but its like i'm not good enough for her, like i can't be her everything. And i'm having alot of trouble dealing with this. I feel that i've been working with her, but i don't feel she's working with me in the matter and how i feel about it. Its like she wants her way or the highway. Not even sure if i should have to deal with it.