Ok so I've been with my g/f for about a year and a half. I love her more than anything. She totally understands me and cares about every part of me, and I feel the same way about her. This last Christmas ('07) she found out that the company she was working for was laying off their entire marketing team nationwide, effective 2 weeks from then (about a week before Christmas). That really shook her up, but she worked her way through it and found another job working for the marketing firm that does all of RJ Reynolds (Camel and Kool cigarettes) promotions and impact events. It paid about the same as her last job was working ok so far. Then about a month or so into it, she finds out that RJ Reynolds has just decided to cut their marketing budget in half and she now has to fire half of the team she just spent over a month hiring and training. Then a week or so later, they inform her that if she wants to stay with the company, she'll have to take a $15,000/yr pay cut and agree to a different job description than she originally was hired for. She agreed, because she needed the job, but it didnt' work out. Now she's been out of work for a month or so, and has been denied unemployment benefits. She's at the point now where she's far enough behind on her car loan that they're going to repossess her car if she doesn't pay at least $500 by 7 PM tonite, then another $500 in 7 days, and another 7 days after that. She just got done squeezing july's rent out of nowhere, about 10 or more days late, and now of course it's time to pay for August. She has several prospective jobs in the works, but nothing firm yet. If her car gets repoed, she won't be able to perform the necessary duties of any of the jobs she's lined up, and she'll probably not be considered for many other jobs she thinks. I don't make a ton of money, and don't really have anything I can do to help her. She has basically lost all hope at this point because her family won't help her at all. Her dad has a lot of money, but he won't call her back or email her. She doesn't have a good relationship with her Mom, and her brother doesn't have any money either. She's pretty much all alone. I am running out of ways to keep her positive and holding on. Everything is looking pretty grim, and final. She keeps basically arguing with me about how she knows things just aren't going to work out for her, and how much of a failure she feels likes. I don't want to argue with her and I don't want her to do something drastic like try to kill herself or I dunno what. What do I do here? I'm at a complete loss. I love this woman. I want to be with her always. Please help!