I realize only ~30% of women can get off from penetration alone and that she will probably some clit stimulation, but let me see if there is hope. I am this girls second sexual partner. As such, we have only done it 4 times and she has only had sex 8 times total(knew her previous b/f). She has never gotten off from sex but has a vibrator and appartently has no problem getting off from it. She tells me she isn't 100% comfortable with sex yet, thats probably why she hasn't been able to. Is it normal for it to take a while for girls to get comfortable with sex? Is there hope for me to find a position that will work? The other night her legs started trembling and she had trouble walking afterwards but no orgasm. She says everything I am doing feels REALLY good and a lot of it was at her request, so I am having problems understanding how something that feels so good can't bring you to an orgasm. Should I just hold out and give it more time? I would have no problem stimulating her but she finds that embarassing, at least for right now. Any insight is appreciated. Oh yea, it also makes me feel HORRIBLE for some reason. Like I am not good enough, etc.