Basic backstory. My girlfriend was diagnosed with Borderline Personality disorder and depression about almost two years ago. We broke up because of her inability to maintain a working relationship (had many symptoms of borderline) but remained close friends. As she got better, got herself to therapy and went on medication we decided to give us another try. I myself was diagnosed with OCD at a young age, I am a type A personality and a workaholic so I definately know I have a skewed vision of the world sometimes. Beginning in June, we moved in together, basically because I was homeless because of a roommate situation gone sour (long story). She however was getting her life in order, she managed to stay in school, find another job and was just getting better in general. However, now.. The fall quarter has started and she can't even get out of bed to file paperwork dealing with the previous quarter (she took it off). She sleeps until 3-4 in the afternoon barely making it to work. She has yet to register properly for a single class or even attend. If I try to suggest she get her day started, she accuses me of trying to be her father, or being a jerk etc. When I try to be stern or even get her out of bed, she throws a fit. If I'm too nice about things, she wont get anything done. I find myself cleaning the entire apartment all the time, waking her up so she can get to work in time, and every little thing that needs to get done. None of this should be my responsibility, I feel like I'm taking care of a small child and I'm just stuck as to what I should do. I take school and work very seriously, and having a girlfriend who obviously doesn't see those things as very important is definately a factor in any relationship... What should I do?