Fucking bullshit is pissing me off!

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  1. Go991ST

    Go991ST Guest

    I'm pretty mad/confused right now so I figured I'd tell everyone at OT for lack of anyone else to speak to at this hour.. :wtc:

    So, I saw my GF Friday night, we went to a movie then hung out back at her place, everything was good. We had plans tonight for an early V-day since she has to work tomorrow evening, as do I.

    First, backtrack a second, on friday she said she would call me on Saturday but never did! :nono:

    So I didn't think too much of it, then earlier today she calls and says she can't go tonight because she has something to do with her family but she'll call me in the afternoon. She never does, so around 7 I call her to see if she still can't do anything tonight, she can't and she says she is fixing to go to the store and will call when she gets back. It's now nearly 1am and I still haven't heard from her and I'm really pissed off.

    I don't trust her, I don't trust anyone really.
    I'm thinking of two options.. One is to call her tomorrow and tell her how much I like her but I'm really getting mixed signals or two, just call her and break it off cause she's fucking with my nerves cause I'm constantly worrying about our relationship. I'm not really attached yet so it won't be too hard to just walk away.. See my problem is, I overanalyze EVERYTHING that happens between us, alot of the times I find I've over-reacted but I can't stop doing it and like I said, it's messing with my nerves.

    FUCK THIS IS MAKING ME CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  2. russd10089

    russd10089 New Member

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    i understand what you're going through, but why would she not call, after saying she would, 3 times. I'd say, call tomorrow, don't be pissy tho, and find out what's up. You two did make arrangements to do something for V-day, and she backs out.
     
  3. Go991ST

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    Anyone had any ideas on what exaclty to say? I'm thinking "I'm curious to know how you feel things are going between us, I like you alot but I'm getting mixed signals from you."

    But then I think, even if we patch this up and it's explained, I'm still gonna be the suspicious person I am with her and it drives me crazy cause what happens between us (stupid shit that I over-analyze) can make me pissy all day or the exact opposite, put me in a really good mood all day.

    But as ya'll could guess, I've been in a really bad mood all weekend cause of this, and it's a weekly occurance. I'm insane apparently.
     
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    if it's a weekly thing, just end it. Really

    If she was going to the store (assuming she was on a cell) why coudlnt' she talk a min or 2, say why she hadn't gotten ahold of ya.

    But yeah, if weekly she's changing plans, just leave her.
     
  5. Neo22

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    Heres how I see it. If she wanted to talk to you, she would make time to do it no matter what. Something is going on or she has lost interest. Call her tomorrow and tell her how you feel, and ask her what the fuck is up. I would personally break it off with her.
     
  6. RichieZero

    RichieZero All I got in this world, is my balls, and my word. OT Supporter

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    I'd just ask her straight out, "What's going on here? It feels like you're fucking around with me." Try not to be hostile; it'll just put her on the defensive, and more inclined to lie.

    But really, if she makes you this nervous, then you probably shouldn't be together.
     
  7. Mars Princess

    Mars Princess They hatin'

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    she might not have been able to call if the family thing she had to do kept her really busy and involved with her family. Perhaps she was tired when she got back. call her to get the story but if she does it again, I would dump her cause she sounds inconsiderate
     
  8. BedBunny

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    great advice
     
  9. AmCo

    AmCo Haters goin' Hate

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    dont jump to conclusions! ask her whats wrong if not spy on her :)
     
  10. Go991ST

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    Like someone said, if she wanted to talk, she'd make time.
    I have NEVER been in a situation where I couldn't call someone at least for a minute to say hi. Even when I'm at work I'll sneak off for a minute to talk, I can't think of any instance where you couldn't find a minute.

    I'm gonna just break it off with her cause I'm really pissed the more I think about it. I'm almost positive she's fooling around with someone else. I don't think she has lost interest (or she does a great job of acting) but I think maybe she really does like me alot like she says but also likes someone else the same way, which of course isn't gonna fly with me. I've never felt such a strong suspicion about a girl as I do with her. :noes:
    I wonder who she is fucking as we speak..


    :o

    :mamoru:
     
  11. russd10089

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    With just that right there, say goodbye. You seem to want someone thats into you and only you. She can't give that if she's into someone else just as much as she's into you.
     
  12. Go991ST

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    Doesn't everyone? I can't imagine sharing my GF.
    I'm not sure there is someone else in addition to me but the fact that I'm always worried isn't good so I think it is best to break it off. Luckily this realization came before it would be too hard.
     
  13. Killa B

    Killa B Abuse This!

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    I think you made the best choice :bigthumb:
     
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    id ask her why she didnt call you at least :dunno:
     
  15. russd10089

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    Yeah, i guess that sounded wrong. Should have said You want a Girlfriend, not someone to date.
     
  16. Moonlight

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    ur gonna have to learn to control urself, too
    or else ull always over-analyze everything in any of ur future relationships and its not healthy...

    learn to trust, learn to not jump to conclusions, learn to understand
    and most of all, learn to be at peace with urself

    if u had said taht this is the first time that it happened and then ur dumping her cuz of this, id say ur crazy.... but since u said that its a weekly thing... then maybe u should either talk to her about it and see if she'll do anything from her part (and u need to do something from ur part as well) to change the situation... if uve already talked to her and nothing's changed... then.. well... i guess there's no point in prolonging the inevitable...

    Good luck, man..
     
  17. tweakerpc

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