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Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Socrates, Jun 7, 2007.

  1. Socrates

    Socrates New Member

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    My girlfriend that you all know about is pregnant, 3 1/2 months, with my baby.

    Today, she left her myspace up on the computer and I saw messages from some guy she admitted she used to like, and here is what they said.


    From:guy
    Date: Jun 7, 2007 1:28 PM



    lol if u say so thats a long ass time away so where are u gonna be workin
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    From:gf
    Date: 07 Jun 2007, 01:20 PM


    lol, 2 years it is!!!

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    From: guy
    Date: Jun 7, 2007 1:17 PM


    give it hmmm about 2 years

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    From:gf
    Date: 07 Jun 2007, 01:17 PM


    yeah, its just not our time,lol

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    From:guy
    Date: Jun 7, 2007 1:16 PM


    but now u got a bf and i got a gf and 200+ miles apart lol

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    From:gf
    Date: 07 Jun 2007, 01:12 PM


    awwwww...youre sooo sweet, sometimes i thoughthe same things too.

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    From:guy
    Date: Jun 7, 2007 1:10 PM



    well lets just say most of the time i wished i wasnt in school when i saw u and when u had ur wreck i wanted to beat some since into josh and shane and i was friends with shane
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    From:her
    Date: 07 Jun 2007, 01:08 PM


    haha...yeah...

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    From:guy
    Date: Jun 7, 2007 12:57 PM


    lol so let me guess u wanna know what the bad thoughts were

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    From:her
    Date: 07 Jun 2007, 12:51 PM


    my boyfriend isnt here, and he doesnt know my password...

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    From:guy
    Date: Jun 7, 2007 12:50 PM


    lol i wont say anything cuz there was a couple times i had some bad thoughts lol but ur bf might get mad at me if i say and if my gf found out shed be mad

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    From:gf
    Date: 07 Jun 2007, 12:47 PM


    if i was as skanky as her to do that i wouldhave atleast made it a case of beer.

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    From:guy
    Date: Jun 7, 2007 12:41 PM


    lol i dont plan on it the chick im with now i like alot and shit and nicole gave some dude head for a beer one night lol one god damn beer and she had a bf

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    From:her
    Date: 07 Jun 2007, 12:40 PM


    lol, i mean never again in this lifetime or the next! i hate her...grrrrr!

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    From:guy
    Date: Jun 7, 2007 12:38 PM


    i wont believe me i only like 2 chicks at the moment im goin out with one and the other has a bf


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  2. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    might want to remove the links to their myspace pages
     
  3. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    Make sure you follow through on the paternity test.
     
  4. JustaMeThang

    JustaMeThang New Member

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    Honestly, I took it as just flirting. If she was saying that last night was great, or lets meet up, then I would be concerned.
     
  5. Socrates

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    Oh I definitely will. Assuming the baby is mine, and i'm 99% sure it is, what would you do, or anyone else?

    Normally I would dump her in 2 seconds and not look back, but a baby is involved now.
     
  6. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    I dunno man, thats a tough one.
     
  7. Socrates

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    She came in and saw me reading it right away. She freaked out and got mad, etc etc.

    She was being all tough and said "we're over!" etc etc, then when I started packing her shit, she started bawling like a baby, and she still is, begging me not to break up with her, saying she was just bored, etc etc. Also saying she was just joking around and flirting stuff.
     
  8. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    If I recall from your other posts this girl and you were never even serious, if anything you always talked about her like she was a fling. In fact you cheated on her, amirite? What a shitty situation. She's pregnant with your child and you both probably don't even love one another or should even get married. Then she's talking to some guy (which by the way...that sounds more than flirting to me) where it sounds as if she is emotionally cheating on you with another guy. Most men might read that and think WTF? But girls know what I'm talking about.

    They might be 300 miles apart, but there's obvious feelings for one another between those messages. I don't know if it's enough to break up over, but then again I'm just confused as to why you guys are having this kid in the first place.
     
  9. kiz

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    make her work to get back in your good graces. i had a similar (but much more serious) situation with my girlfriend and after an extremely long night lots of tears and demonstration of just how LSE she is, i agreed to not dump her ass immediately because of pending engagements--however now, several months later, she still knows that i don't fully trust her.
     
  10. iceman1123

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    If you cheated on her...karmas a bitch lol.

    id leave her for a week or two to scare her and see if she straightens out. idk she might be flirting cause you're not giving her the attn she needs.

    how fucking old are you?
     
  11. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    That's partially what I was thinking. When woman aren't getting a certain amount of attention from their man that's when they seek it out elsewhere. Like I mentioned in my former post, Socrates has written about this girl....how he cheated on her, how she never seemed that important to him....It sounds like you guys are just staying together for this kid. And that's just sad (for the child).
     
  12. Paintballer

    Paintballer Choo Choooo....

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    thats a tough one man but i'd say if she left it up then thats her fault and you were just looking at what was in front of you. You did nothing wrong in my mind. She must feel that she was doing something wrong in her mind otherwise she wouldn't have got mad about you reading it and her trying to keep it hidden.

    That make any sense at all?
     
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    Don't ever let a kid be the reason you stay with someone. I would say leave her. You can still be around baby of course. But what she is doing is more than flirting. If he was there she would cheat on you, which means if she finds someone closer to her, she will cheat on you. No point in being in a relationship where your home watching baby and she is out fucking around. You can't trust her, which means this relationship is doomed. I know people who are together just because of their kid, the girl is out cheating on him all the time and just stays because they have a kid together. What kind of life is that for the baby anyway. Not a good one. It would be better for it to not be around an unhealthy relationship anyway.
     
  14. Kytro

    Kytro I am become death, shatterer of worlds

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    The messages seem to just be flirting, but that can sometimes lead to more. Dumping someone over flirting is a little bit harsh, but it does cause suspicions.
     
  15. Chip Chipperson

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    That's really something you want to stay with?

    It really surprises me, the standards and sense of self worth that people have for themselves
     
  16. Kytro

    Kytro I am become death, shatterer of worlds

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    Can't tell how serious it is from just this much information - really needs to be discussed and resolved between them.
     
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    another fucked up baby from selfish parents. poor kid.
     
  18. Ranger-AO

    Ranger-AO I'm here for the Taliban party. Moderator

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    EVERYbody flirts.
     
  19. Chip Chipperson

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    everybody flirts.... sometimes.... everybody criiiiiies
     
  20. Bruticus

    Bruticus half dead OT Supporter

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    The messages didn't seem too bad to me. Her "we're over!" reaction would be a much bigger problem for me. Because a kid is involved I can't really say what I'd do, never having been in that position, but she doesn't really seem very mature to me.

    I don't care about flirting. I flirt heaps with certain people, whether in a relationship or not, and it doesn't mean anything beyond having a bit of fun. Could be more in this case? Hard to tell, but she didn't really say anything bad.
     
  21. Falconer

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    You need to decide if flirting is acceptable behavior for an SO.

    Many people in this forum think it is.

    Some of us do not.
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Motherfucking .
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I think thats thinking way too far into it. She freaked out hardcore when she saw him looking. I've left my myspace open millions of times because I never assumed anyone would get on it.
     
  24. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I don't even know if they live together. Socrates hasn't come back and given more details. But I doubt she just left it open right there on her computer...I bet she just never signed off and maybe he went to myspace and there was her account...open.
     
  25. Socrates

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    This isn't my dating life anymore where I can drop a girl like its nothing just because she says something I don't like.

    I got drunk, got stupid, and didn't use a condom once, and here I am. If there wasn't a baby involved, I would have dumped her in a second and moved on. But now....I may have to lighten up a bit.
     

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