name?: Master/Daddy/Sir/Bane/slut/whore/slave/boi/... John age?: 27 gender?: M ethnicity?: Irish/German/American where raised?: Ohio/Texas/Virginia level and place of education?: HS grad, some college occupation?: Network Engineer hobbies?: Flesh, Dreams, Pain, Games, Drugs, Dancing, Music, Movies. sexual preference? why?: Bi. Dunno, ask nature. measurements?: 5' 11" 175lbs http://www.myspace.com/baneboi how many/type of toys?: A lot. Cat'o'9s/floggers, crops, canes, paddles, candles, rope, ankle/wrist restraints, assorted hooks, spreader bar, blindfold, vibes, plugs, dongs, latex gloves, needles, razors, clips/clamps, lubes/oils, etc, etc. favorite toys/instruments/equipment for use on self and on partner?: Depends on the scene/role. I prefer restraints, a large flogger, and a large dong for use on others. I dont care whats used to bind me, as long as I cant get out of it. I prefer floggers and canes used on me for extended periods of time. likes & dislikes on an FS level?: I like damn near anything that doesnt involve kids (age play is fun, real kids arent), animals or shit. I love BDSM, role-play, pain, ass play, asphyxiaphilia, exhibitionism, voyeurism, play piercing, blood, cross dressing, knife play, gun play, play rape, humiliation, tears, fisting, toys, collars/leashes/rubber/latex/fetishwear/etc, rope, leather, chains, torture in general, cum play, etc, etc, etc, etc... best and worst experiences with FS stuff?: Best sub experience would prolly be public play I was involved in years ago. I was playing sub with a Master/Mistress couple. They owned a beautiful female slave, who was under a 24/7 contract with them. The four of us would goto a fetish party in DC called Bound, that used to allow public play. They would tie us up, usually together, on opposite crosses, facing each other. We'd stare into each others eyes as Master and Mistress did circles around us beating us with various objects. We'd be up there for over an hour sometimes, in nothing but thongs, in a cold ass warehouse-style building in the dead of winter. Fucking delicious. Never reached that level of pleasure-pain/exhibitionism/subspace before, prolly wont again. Best Dom experience was prolly just recently (or is only "best" since it was recent ). An acquaintance from my HS days, who I hadnt seen in ~10 years found me on alt.com. We never hung out much back in the day, but I always thought she was hot. We went out for drinks, got really hammered, and she teased and tormented me all night. In public she was a tough little chic who didnt take shit, borderline snob. She was testing me around every corner, seeing what she could get away with, and if I could keep her in line without freaking out her vanilla friends too much. Once I got her back to her house, I threw her around like a rag doll. Held her off the ground by her neck several times. Made her beg and plead for forgiveness for being such a SAM (smart-ass-masochist) all night. Made her beg for the lash. I beat her then made her beg for more, beat her then made her beg for my cock, fucked her then made her beg for more. She'd bite, claw, kick, and scream sometimes... my favorite. It was hella fun "breaking" her. We were up all night, I went to work the next morning with no sleep, a perma-grin, a hangover, and visible claw and bite marks all over my face, neck, and arms. Hehehe, good times. Worst is kinda tied with all the times someone thinks they want to Dom me, but have no idea how. I dont mind n00bs at all, I dont mind training, I dont mind showing people things. I do mind when people dont know what their doing, but claim to. Especially if they refuse to take advice. fantasies?: I'd really like to organize a gang-bang and/or fetish orgy. tell us about your childhood: Roman Catholic parents. Two older brothers and an older sister, none of them into teh freaky. Good childhood until I started thinking for myself. Things went badly once I refused to be "Confirmed" as Catholic. From bad to worse when my mother started snooping around and found out I was into smoking pot and was into boys as much as girls. Got tired of being told I was evil, and that I was going to burn in hell, and that it was all their fault, etc.. so I moved out as soon as I turned 18. Havent looked back, relationship with the fam is back to plastic happiness, they dont ask, I dont tell. what do you think contributed to your like/dislike of teh FS?: I've always been freaky. I was the little 7y/o that always wanted to play "truth or dare" or "doctor". I've always been trying to find ways to get people naked and to touch each other. I'm a dirty, naughty, raunchy pervert, and I always will be. I have to assume its just me... nothing in my environment, that I can think of, would have steered me in this direction. Cookie cutter home, never molested, never found daddy's/bro's pr0n (least not till I was a teen), nothin like that. Why would you consider yourself freaky?: Because I define the word. When did you get an attack of the freakiness?: When I was 7 and kissed my two best friends in the woods naked. Are your siblings freaky?: No. How open minded are you?: Open would be an understatement in my case. Have you ever been involved in a 3some?: Yep, lost count. orgy?: Depends on your definition of "orgy". The most people I've been with at one time, where penetration was involved, was 5 (3f 2m). gangbang?: Again...define "gangbang", if 3 guys on one girl counts... then yes. What position(s) make you cum the fastest? the hardest? the longest?: I dont really work that way. My favorite positions change constantly, and differ per person. Its the mood, situation, build-up, scene, atmosphere, etc, that determine how hard and long I cum. When I cum is usually up to me. What do you look for in another partner?: Attraction. Honesty. Comfort. Are you a swinger?: Sure baby, yeah! Have you ever been to a lifestyle establishment? If so, how was your experience?: Several times. Had fun with the people I went with, but was usually very unimpressed by the crowd. Have you ever been to a house party? If so how was the first one ever attended?: I'm assuming you mean a swinger house party. No. Ever been to Hedonism?: I fuckin wish. Do you think a persons promiscuity or lack there of has to do with their childhood?: I think any personality trait can stem from a persons childhood. I think its only one of a slew of factors tho. Have you used online sites for the sole reason of getting sex?: Sure have. What's your fav. body part of the opposite sex? same sex?: Depends on the person. any fetishes? (what?): Yep, flesh. favorite outfit for a partner?: Depends on the person. Right now, I'd have to say little skirts with kneesocks and a tee-shirt for the girls, and naked for the boys. as always, feel free to ask the interviewee any further questions you may have. if you would like to suggest questions for future interviews or would like to volunteer to be interviewed, pm me (tigretek).