FS Interview: AtlantisBubba

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  1. Bubba Atlantis

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    Okay, so I know we are supposed to send these things to Tigre for him to post, but I just felt like filling it out suddenly and posting it. I have been meaning to do this for a while, but it seemed to continually get put off; primarily because Lovely and I were going to fill one out together. Anyway, here it is.

    name? Bryce

    age? 24

    gender? male

    ethnicity? Western European

    where raised? British Columbia, Canada

    level and place of education? University of British Columbia Graduate with a double major is Forensic/Personality Psychology and Criminology.


    occupation? University Researcher

    hobbies? Volleyball, Photography, Dancing, Scuba Diving, Soccer

    sexual preference? I would consider myself fairly Heterosexual. I find other men attractive, but having sex with another man does not appeal to me.

    measurements? 6'2'' (189.2 centimeters) 185 pounds (84 kilograms)
    penis: 8 inches long, 3 inch diameter.

    how many/type of toys? Hmm, my toys? Well they are all Lovely’s. However, some that I use. Whip, Blindfold, Leather Handcuffs…..mmm, that might be it. I am not a big toy person. I don’t have any toys for me really. I just use my hand :mamoru:

    favorite toys/instruments/equipment for use on self and on partner? On my partner, my favourite is my fingers. Why?? Well, because my partner is a MAJOR squirter, and the fingers do a great job on getting her to squirt EVERYWHERE! On myself, I just use my hand and my brain or computer (for visual stimulation or to read a story).

    likes & dislikes on an FS level? I like bondage and inflicting moderate pain. I like exhibitionism and a bunch of other things. Dislikes would be watersports or scat. I am also not big on having pain inflicting on me. For some reason I just don’t have a pain fetish.

    best and worst experiences with FS stuff? Best: I have enjoyed Lovely and My experiences with multiple women. I would say that the best was New Years a two years ago. We had talked about doing stuff with my best friend (Female) but she had been in a relationship. She ended that relationship and ended up with a new girlfriend (who was really hot, but a bit of a bitch). We had decided that the four of us would fool around (it had been discussed multiple times in the past). We got together for New Year’s Eve and went out for dinner. We then sort of swapped partners and went to a movie (Apocolyptico). We then went home and started playing strip poker and drinking. One thing lead to another and they were all naked, playing around. We pulled out some of the bondage stuff and they played with that. At 12:30AM we looked up and went Opps, missed New Years….oh well. Then at 1:00Am, they told me that I needed to find Whipped Crème. Do you know how hard it is to find whipped crème at 1am??? I finally found some. Came back and they had fun with the crème, chocolate and strawberries. They finally all had a shower together and we all went to bed. The next morning there was chocolate and strawberries smeared all over the walls. It was great because of what it could have led to in the future and not because of what did happen (although that was great). It ended up that was the only time we did stuff with them, but it wasn’t the result of the experience being bad; far from it. My best friend and I had another problem and that has resulted in nothing since. That is offtopic though.
    Hmm, Worst: Well, I would say the worst was with Lovely when she decided it would be fun to ride the E-Brake in the car….she got stuck L…that wasn’t very good. I don’t know that I have had too many ‘memorable’ bad experiences. I guess my grandmother walking in (apparently as I did not know) on Lovely giving me head.

    Fantasies? – Hmm, I have been lucky to have the opportunity to do a lot of stuff. I would say there are a few things that would be fun to do with multiple people. I know watching Lovely do stuff with other people (male or female) is a big turn on. I also like the idea of creating a sex slave for a bit. Just having someone (so Lovely) walk around the house all the time naked and in a collar and cuffs, where she is there to just please me. She is constantly wet and masturbates whenever I tell her to and does what I say. I would also like to be dominated (lightly) by a girl sometime. I wouldn’t necessarily call it being dominated as having a girl be in control during sex and forcing me to please them or just using me for sex. I also like public sex stuff. Lovely won’t do it, but it would be something fun to do. I have done a bit, like a blowjob on a chair lift at a busy ski hill, but nothing much. I would like to do something more, like a change room or bathroom or behind a building or something like that. I have had sex on a beach; and I don’t mean the little snuggling up on a towel and spooning. I am talking about bending Lovely over a fallen down tree and pounding into her.

    tell us about your childhood. I grew up in a small town (80,000 people) and was socially inept. I lived with my mother and my sister. My sister is 6 years younger then me. I was basically the man of the house. However, without having a male role-model in the house, I ended up being somewhat girly. I think it has actually helped me as I do very well with women and I know how to talk to them and charm them (Right ladies of FS :naughty:)

    what do you think contributed to your like/dislike of the FS? I grew up in a very comfortable environment. The topic of sex was not taboo, therefore I was comfortable with my interests. As is evidenced by my degree and work, I am interested in understanding people and thus such a taboo topic is very interesting to me and something I wanted to investigate more. I don’t think I can look at some specific thing and say ‘That is why I like stuff’ I think it is more my comfortable upbringing, personal interest, and genetics.

    When did you get an attack of the freakiness? Mmm, I would say in my mid-teens. A little before dating Lovely I liked watching porn and was interested in the bondage and squirting (before it was big). I enjoyed seeing the girl being tied up and ravished (not violently though). Mmmm, yeah, so when I was like 15 I guess.

    Are your siblings freaky? I suspect they are. I am not 100% sure, but I am sure my mother is. I know she fucks around. She has done some of those online swinging and dating things. My sister has just begun having sex, but I think she is bi (which I think she would agree with). In addition, I have seen some of her recent photos and they are very suggestive and involve corsets, leather, cuffs, collars, boots, etc. So, how freaky she is?? I don’t know but I suspect if given the opportunity she would be comfortable with things and be interested in trying stuff.

    How open minded are you? I would say very open-minded. There are things that do not interest me, but doesn’t mean I would say no to them. I think what really makes me believe I am open-minded is because I am comfortable talking about anything with anyone (many would say they know too much about my sexual stuff ;))

    Have you ever been involved in a 3some? orgy? a gangbang? Yup, the most I have been in is MFFF. I have never been involved in anything remotely sexual with another man present though. It has always been with women. In addition, I have only had sex with Lovely, so the degree that you want to classify a ‘threesome’ with people is up to you. I have fooled around in groups and have engaged in oral sex with multiple partners.

    What do you look for in another partner? They need to be intelligent. I enjoy having a good conversation with someone. They need to be active. They need to have a great sense of humour and smile. They need to have self-confidence in themselves; which is different from self-arrogance. Physically, I have a preference for blondes and redheads (in fact, the female friend I mentioned earlier was not the slightest bit appealing as a brunette, but increased in appeal as a blonde lol). I like boobs, I am definitely a boob person. I like ‘B’ or ‘C’ If it fits their body, a ‘D’ can be really nice. However, although I am a breast person, I don’t like the really big ones.

    Are you a swinger? Not yet ;)

    Have you ever considered swinging? Yes, Lovely and I have talked about it. I think it will be a small part of our life in the future. We are looking at a few things right now, but we will see how it goes.

    Have you ever been to a lifestyle establishment? If so, how was your experience? No but we have talked about it.

    Have you ever been to a house party? If so how was the first one ever attended? lol a house party? yes…a sexual house party? At times the house parties have turned into a sexual house party :mamoru: but as for that being the purpose, no, I have not.

    Do you think a persons promiscuity or lack there of has to do with their childhood? Partly. I think you are either genetically inclined to that or not. I think your childhood can bring it out. Take me for instance, I had an open childhood and I think that has helped with my views on sex. Specifically, coming from a one parent household where my mother had new boyfriends each 6 months or a year, I don’t hold the act of sex to as high of a standard (not synonymous with love). Therefore, sex with multiple people is okay with me as sex, in general, holds very little meaning. Conversely, Lovely grew up in a monogamous two parent household that did NOT talk about sex EVER (she received a book when she was young and was basically told ‘figure the rest out for yourself’). Therefore, sex has a completely different meaning to her as does monogamy. She grew up with monogamy being required.

    Have you used online sites for the sole reason of getting sex? Paid sites? Nope. Dating sites? Nope. Downloaded porn or read stories on the net? Yes. I find that my best tool to getting sex (or along those lines) is being friendly, myself, honest and being married (it is amazing how much farther you can get being married; it is like being the gay friend :mamoru:)

    What's your fav. body part of the opposite sex? same sex? Opposite Sex would have to be breasts….though I do love the face too. I like high cheekbones. But definitely the breasts are my tops. For guys….I dunno, I like a muscular chest guy (not too muscular though). I really like a guys face though too….I think the face is key for me. I do not know how to explain my favourite stuff with guys. I am trying to think of friends or people I have found attractive and what it is….that is the best I can come up with…the core upper body and face.

    any fetishes? (what?) Hmm, If done properly, I really like the goth look. I think a LOT of people do it completely wrong or do not have the figure or the look for it. For those that can pull it off, it looks REALLY HOT and turns me on a LOT. I have found a few that work well. I would say that I also like S&M…being on the Sadist side. That turns me on. I also really like squirting. That is a major turn on for me. I personally do not view it as a fetish or you would have to say a guy Cumming is a fetish, but many do, so I will add that to here.

    favorite outfit for a partner? Okay, so I have the outfit I love the most. Black hair with red strips, black lipstick, black leather collar, corset, long trench coat (open), short mini skirt, cuffs on the wrists (red/black) with thigh high leather boots.

    I actually saw this outfit on a girl one night. My friend and I were going out to a club with a bunch of friends and she and I were chatting with some people, then we both suddenly stopped and turned around and watched this girl walk by…then went back to our conversation. We got some looks from our friends….we both laughed and said “what, she was HOT”….I told them I wanted to go wherever she was going :mamoru:

    Okay, well that answers all of those questions. I am fairly open and will go into detail on anything anyone wants, so ask away. I might refrain from some things only because of the other people involved. I am respectful of their wishes and some of the people in my life are not as open as I am to talking about things :)

    Okay, looking forward to this.
     
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  2. Bubba Atlantis

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    and a photo to add to the interview

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    Through this photo, I realize Lovely is far more attractive than I am :mamoru:
     
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    TigreTek omega member OT Supporter

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    i have no idea why i posted that.
     
  5. Bubba Atlantis

    Bubba Atlantis New Member

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    I was wondering myself.....I was like :eek3: okay *slowly leaves the thread*

    I just figured, meh, I will ignore it :mamoru:
     
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    From what it seems, you are very open and thats a great quality to have

    Does Lovely's openness bring it out in you or vice versa, because it seems that you both feed off of eachother, or you both just got lucky finding someone on the same level?

    Great read
     
  7. Bubba Atlantis

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    Thanks for reading it :)

    I would say I am far more open than Lovely is. If she disagrees, she is more than welcome to post otherwise. However, I would say I am the driving force in regards to openness. She tends to be a bit more open on this forum, but I think that is because she has been a part of forums for a while and has even helped run one and therefore feels more empowered and comfortable being more open here. She still gets a bit frustrated at my openness with other people in RL. One story I remember. We were out for dinner with my friend (the female I mentioned in the post) and the friend and I are EXTREMELY open.....anyway, we were eating dinner and having one of our normal sex topics and there was a guy to the table beside us marking papers and for half an hour, he did not switch pages :rofl::rofl: Apparently we were distracting him.

    Anyway, back on topic. Lovely is open in this environment because she knows she is not going to be judged and she knows that everyone here has the same viewpoints/thoughts as she does. In RL, it is a little different and she is a bit more hesitant as she tends to be more concerned about her image towards others. However, it has changed a lot since we were first together and she is now more open in general and FAR MORE open with our friends :)....It is something that she works hard at however and I think she is rather successful at it, as evidenced by your interpretation of her being rather open; which I think is a testament to her perseverance. hmm, that was a really long winded answer :hsugh:
     
  8. RougeOgre

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    Do you mind spelling out some of YOUR rules for playdates? Do your rules vary widely depending on the playmates or are some things just "off limits" at this point?
     
  9. Bubba Atlantis

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    Woo Hoo a question. Been waiting....good one too :)

    So, our rules seem to vary for different people. With out main partner, the rules have become fairly relaxed. We started with her about five years ago. It began slowly, but over the years has progressed. Our latest session with her (at the start of this month) I fingered her while Lovely and Her made out and I screwed Lovely. We have two major rules that seem to apply to all. The first is I am not allowed to screw the other girl (that might change in the future of course). The second rule is that I don't kiss the other girl. Outside of that it is fairly wide open. With each session, there are slightly different rules. For instance, one time oral sex was allowed, another time it wasn't allowed. For me, personally, the rules are the same all the time. I am fine with anything. However, Lovely does not feel the same way. Therefore we have those two rules. Over the years, the rules have become rather relaxed, however, the vast majority of things center around Lovely doing things with the other girl. This has included oral, fingering, making out, using a strap-on and using a double dildo. For our other partners, they have been fairly tight rules, but I think that is because we have not played with them much. As we play more with people, the rules become less. The most recent couple that we have done some mild stuff with has been fun. It seems the rules are fairly relaxed with them, but I think that partly has to do with it being another couple, instead of one or two girls.

    Hmm, I think I am rambling. If I have failed to answer something, please ask again :)

    I want a bunch of people to ask questions, this is fun :mamoru:

    Sadly I am afraid most people know everything about me :(
     
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    Boxers, briefs, or something sexier? (and if its the latter, and pics?)

    Have you and Lovely ever worn eachothers clothes or underwear?

    Also, nice to see the interviews getting posted. I think I filled out mine like 11ty months ago.
     
  11. Bubba Atlantis

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    I wear boxer briefs...I like the comfort boxers with the support of briefs. I have a great photo to post...I posted them in the clothed/unclothed thread...however, I will repost it here

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    We dont' wear one another's clothes no. That has never really been much of a turn on for me. Well, her wearing some of my stuff is kinda hot. I always like a girl in a nice big baggy t-shirt. In that situation, Lovely has worn some of my clothes and has actually stolen some of my clothes permanently :mamoru:. However, as far as a sexual component to it, no we have never done stuff like that for that purpose :)
     
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    :wtc: Anymore questions :(?
     
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    Poor Bubba...

    Shouldn't have spilled your guts BEFORE the interview :mamoru:
     
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    yeah yeah :(.....what can I say, I am an open book....you know I bet Lovely gets tons more questions :( actually I have received questions, but they have been through pm or email :(
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    i have no questions to ask. :dunno: you talk too much the rest of the time that everyone knows all they want to know.
     
  16. Bubba Atlantis

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    LMAO :rofl::rofl::rofl: Yeah I know.....I thought about that prior to creating this interview. I knew I wouldn't get asked much as most of the people here know me already. In addition, people ask questions to me in threads that I tend to answer. Thus, there really isn't much (or anything) left to ask. I loved Rouge's pitty question :mamoru: She said to me later "I already knew the answer, I think, it was more for everyone else :mamoru:"
     
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    how did you and lovely meet? and how long into your relationship did the freakyshiat surface.... or was it game on from the get go?



    sorry if you already answered those questions i might have missed them.
     
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    will answer this in the next hour or two..just have a meeting first :)
     
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    Lovely and I met in High School. I seduced her and stole her from her ex-boyfriend. Funny though, he ended up being an usher at our wedding. I was in Grade 12 and she was in Grade 10….yes I was a little cradle robber :mamoru:

    Hmm, when did the freaky show up??? I dunno…fairly soon. I got Lovely squirting fairly earlier into our relationship. We started having threesomes (sort of) at a young age. I think the started when she was in Grade 11. In addition, she has always liked the spanking, blindfolding, tying up, etc. I would say that it REALLY started a few years ago. We did a little bit here and there, but it increased ten fold when we moved into our own place. We had always lived apart or with other people and thus it was a bit more difficult. In addition, once we were in our relationship for a bit and working and going to school, we had more money and were able to buy things to enhance the fun. We have always had a good time and gone to Sex Shows and so forth, but I would say we are still in the novice stages of our freaky. We have begun to push the boundaries over the last year or two (I think thanks to FS). There are things that we are interested in doing but have yet to do and I suspect those will come over the next year or two.

    We have gone somewhat slow, which I think is good. It has allowed us to be comfortable and not be overwhelmed. It has also allowed us to discuss what we like/dislike and truly enjoy each of the experiences we encounter :)

    Hmm, I think that answers it…thanks for asking the questions. I have not seen you much in this section :wtc: Try to post more as I would love to hear more from you.

    Again, thanks for the question, that was fun :)
     
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    why the name change?
     
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    lol...nice.

    Lovely had mentioned a while ago that she was always referred to as Atlantis. I tend to be called Bubba, but I have noticed of late I have been called Atlantis as well. In addition, when people are talking about Lovely and I, they say The Atlantis'. So, as a result, we both wanted to be referred to by Bubba and Lovely, but wanted to keep Atlantis (it was the name of a site we used to run together)....so since regulars tend to refer to us at The Atlantis' it sort of makes that a last name....conversely, we tend to be called Lovely and Bubba....so it made sense for me to be Bubba Atlantis and for Lovely to be Lovely Atlantis
     
  22. Lovely Atlantis

    Lovely Atlantis Luscious Lovely Lady!

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    I feel like I should say something in this thread seeing as a lot of what is being discussed involves me. But I really don't have anything to comment. So far I'd agree with pretty much everything he's said. But just thought i'd poke my head in here anyway
     
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    no, your not welcome :mamoru:
     
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    long time lurker first time poster. i'm absolutely amazed at your level of openess. i enjoy reading FS and the sort of twisted family that goes on in here. i'd post more, but alas i know some other OT'ers in real life, so for now i'll just stick to lurking i guess.

    heres another one.


    if you could change one thing about yourself what would it be?

    oh, and how are you not a mod in here? christ youre in like every thread
     
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    Actually you are now a second time poster....and thank you for your kind words. I try to be open. Many feel that I am TOO open. I have one personality and one persona. If you don't like it, fuck off :mamoru: I do not believe in faking things and I do not like people who are fake. Therefore, I try to mold myself that way. I do not have anything to hide because I feel it is important to be honest and open. I try to be respectful to what people are comfortable hearing, but I will go as far as a person wants (this of course goes beyond sex).

    In addition, I like to make people feel uncomfortable at times. I rarely, if ever, am uncomfortable in a situation and I feel that you can learn about yourself by pushing your boundaries. Therefore, I try to be open and make people open up more than they would like. LOL I so lost my train of thought in this...so I will stop lol

    We do have a fun family here...it is a great family.....I must admit though in this family there is a little bit of playful incest :mamoru:

    Too bad you know people here. I have contemplated inviting people here so that I have people I know in RL to chat with...then suddenly I am reminded that there are A LOT of photos of my penis and my wife on here and I realize that, although I am comfortable with it, my friends and family might not want to see that :mamoru:

    If I could change one thing, I would change some of my personality. I tend to lack sensitivity to people's feelings as well as situations. I tend to be a bit annoying in large doses (and I know the reason behind that) and it would be great to be a little less overwhelming to people.

    As for the mod comment :) Thank you very much for the endorsement and I would be more than happy to help out here, and a few others areas on the site (sports, photography and especially initiation) but there is a GREAT mod already here named Tigre who does wonderful work and doesn't need help. Besides, there are a few names that come to mind that I feel would be good candidates over myself :) Again, honoured and willing to help but very content where I am :)

    I have noticed that though :mamoru: I am in FAR too many threads. I have looked at the top posters in each thread (by clicking on the number of replies on the main page) and I tend to be in the top two or three in almost every thread. SCARY :noes::noes:
     

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