I have been seeing this girl for a month now. In that time we have been on 10 dates and I've slept over at her place on 3 of those dates. And will probably again tomorrow. She seems to keep hinting to me that she wants an exclusive relationship but I keep waiting for her to bring it up. She gives me hits like talking about things we should to at least a month in the future (concerts and stuff like that) and I went with her to a party at her friends house where she introduced me to a bunch of her friends. A few weeks ago I was over at her place and she got me extremely drunk. And in my drunken state I asked her if she was still seeing any other guys. She said she wasn't and asked me the same question. I was honest and told her I had been seeing 3 other girls but had stopped talking to all of them shortly after I met her because I only wanted to be with her. This may have sounded needy but I don't remember. We have still been hanging out a lot since then so she must not have thought so. Although, I'm pretty sure she thinks I'm a player though because of my answer. She did say that we could talk more about that after she got back from visiting her family the following week. Last night we ended up talking about dating and she said that it has been 3 years since she had dated anyone and that she is not really sure how the whole process goes. Like how long before you go from just hanging out to exclusive. I think her hints plus he telling me she was not sure how the whole dating thing works might be as close as she gets to outright bringing it up. I normally just wait for the girl to bring this up but I get the feeling that she is too shy to do it herself and that this is as close as she will get.