Friendzoned?

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  1. pelf

    pelf The Juice Was Worth The Squeeze

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    Hanging out with a bunch of friends in my next door neighbor's room in the dorm and everyone is a little tipsy then one friend says: "Hey eric what do you think of GirlX" and before I can say anything she says "DONT SAY THAT!!! He's like a brother to me!!!!" So basically, I think this is friendzone but I dont know. I do kinda like her but I dont want to compromise a good friendship by saying anything about it to her..It would be kind of akward seeing her every day and stuff it would seem like.

    Would it be safe to say that I have been friendzoned and that I shouldnt try to make a move?
     
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  2. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    Do you have anything to lose seriously? I mean some girls do that for protection until they are sure they wanna be with you...
     
  3. pelf

    pelf The Juice Was Worth The Squeeze

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    Well I guess I could possibly loose a really good friendship if she really didnt want to be more than friends. I love hanging out with her and just talking to her and maybe if I try to make a move it will freak her out a bit and she will avoid me or something. I dont know..Girls confuse the hell out of me sometimes. :noes:
     
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    zoned
     
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    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    yep. don't even try. hopefully she has hot friends she'll introduce you too haha.
     
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    Friendzoned.

    My suggestion? Make a horribly blatent, assholeish move next time you see her - grab her ass and ram your tongue down her throat, for example - to see where you really stand. If she digs it, you win. If she doesn't, you have a funny story to tell.

    Whatever you do, DON'T talk to her about the friends zone.

    Why leave yourself hanging, always wanting more but never being able to have it?

    Make your move and either have sex with her, or move on.
     
  8. skitcy

    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    bad advice...
     
  9. pelf

    pelf The Juice Was Worth The Squeeze

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    deep in the friendzone. don't even bother trying.
     
  11. pelf

    pelf The Juice Was Worth The Squeeze

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    Anyway to get out of this friendzone? Make her jealous maybe? Or is it like once you are in you are in for good? :wtc:
     
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    You are stuck as being one of her friends
     
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    It's happened a few times in the history of mankind, but chances aren't good.
     
  14. purplebeast

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    Your the bermuda triangle of relationships, the friendzone.
     
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    Epiphany 78% of all statistics are made up on the spot

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    I got out of the friendzone.

    I joined the Marines, lost weight, came back with a ton of confidence, and as nerdy as it sounds, the whole time I was gone I was reading Self-Improvement books (mostly on relationship stuff) from barnes and noble.

    I knew how to not be a cocky asshole, but still be in control and be a leader.

    She finally told me she liked me one day, I played around with it for a few days, acting like I wasn't interested, then told her "I'm sorry, but I really just want to be friends."

    It's not like I can blame her for me being a pussy before, but fuck that. She made my life hell for a long time.

    After I got off my high horse and decided I liked her, I decided to take her out on a date. The next night I found out she is pregnant with some guys' baby. We both kind of got the shit end of the stick because we both wish it was my child and we were together.
     

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