I have these two best friends who still try to keep in contact with me but for some reason, i don't ever want to hang with them. The story behind these two are they used to be bf/gf for a long time and ever since i've known them i've hung out with them. I've been through both of their hardships, happy times and crazy drunk times. Then they broke up, and i had to choose sides, to me that was unfair and in that bull shit i guess i started to grow a little more a apart from them. I don't want to sound cocky but i've got a very large group of friends (no myspace facebook bullshit) and i started hanging with them more and time went on. So then we get older (now im 21) and they both go to college, and do their thing so they move to milwaukee which is about 30-45 mins away. I can't be driving out there all the time, but yet they still come out here and for somereason i can't figure out is why i dont want to hang but really i do...if you get what im saying. They are still my best friends but I also hang out with my other two best friends who are local. Well now they are both really grinding down on me to hang out. I don't want to lose this special childhood friendship but i can't figure out whats wrong with me.