So... i just lost a friend tonight bc she owed me money. I know that i'm not supposed to mix friends and money, but it happened. i loaned her money about a month ago with the promise that she would pay me in 4 days. after a week, i ran out of money (had a grand total of 4.70 in my accts) i texted and got no response. the next day, i tried calling and texting. she only replied after i told a mutual friend to text her to she if she was avoiding me. she said she got paid but didn't have the money and could she pay me in 2 weeks. i texted her after 2 weeks, no result, and then i texted and called left messages on thursday, friday and saturday. nothing. her facebook page disappeared during this time. i figured she was looking to fuck me over so i dropped by her family's house today to ask about her. i told her bro the situation and as he was taking down my number, my friend (the one that owes me money) walks up the driveway... coming home from vegas with the bf. she insisted that her phone was @ home while she was gone. she calls me later later bitching me out about involving her family n such and that after she pay me she doesn't wanna see me again. did i do the right thing? i figured a friend wouldn't treat a friend this way, so i acted from that point of view... but i'm starting to feel guilty, maybe i took it too far?