So basically, I started talking to this girl about a week ago, and asked her out. She wrote on facebook me saying that she has never been in a relationship BLA BLA BLA... has had bad experiences with guys BLA BLA BLA... doesn't have time for a commited relationship right now, but wants to be friends with bennefits. A few things: 1) am I just going to be the "fuck" people talk about and never the boyfriend? 2) I don't really know if i want to be friends with bennefits.... from what I heard, someone always ends up hurt from this. 3) should I confront her about this, tell her about my concerns, or should I just shut up and get some free sex. (no work and all play) but if I go his route, will I ever truly be satisfied? and does this mean I can still date around?