Well I parted with my SO about 3 months ago. Tis ok though, in retrospect it was not meant to be. Since then the benefits part is not as frequent as I am used to (or like frankly). So I am thinking of a friend with benefits... Here is why. In January I am scheduled to move to Sydney Australia to continue on with my education and do my internship. (still a slight chance it won't come together but hey gotta think positive). To enter into any relationship is not fair. While I may only be in Sydney for 5 or 6 months, I don't know that yet and may in fact stay much, much longer. Finding someone to date is a bit difficult. I am student clergy and well, despite the fact my congregation has a ton of cute, eligible guys, I can't date them as it goes against church governance (yeah it sucks, which means I can't). A friend with benefits could work great. When I leave in January say a goodbye and then be off. More people are interested in this type of relationship than a regular one, or at least they might be for a short period of time... if they find the love of their life, well I back out - not a problem. Any thoughts on this? I rarely go to bars, don't troll on gay.com (is there a better one to meet guys and I don't mean 2 hr relationships?) and tend to be a loner. Also while I am allowed to be sexual, I can't fuck the flock limiting the effect of backsplash to my professional work and training. So? thoughts? Options? Anyone want to be my first friend with benefits (don't worry if you are not in Toronto - I love to travel and do so frequently).