'Friends with benefits' question

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  1. JPitts

    JPitts uwsigep

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    So this girl and I decided to be 'friends with benefits' and we got together only once and some fun and crazy stuff happened.

    now heres the deal:
    before i had asked her this i knew that she used to have a huge crush on me and wanted to go out with me and all of this stuff. i thought she was over it because i told her it wouldnt work out like that because we dont have much in common.

    but now, i am pretty sure she is starting to like me again because of what happened.

    should i just end it now before she gets too attached? or should i see how far i can roll with it?
     
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    Repost PENCIL DICK

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    Depends, if you like her back, do what's natural.

    If you don't like her back, I advise not to be FWB.
     
  3. JPitts

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    thats what i was thinking :hs:


    i dont like her back btw


    not at all. shes really boring... but she has a nice ass! :mamoru:
     
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    PuppyCat O.T. Mom

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    Put the shoe on the other foot. How would YOU feel?
    Someone is going to get hurt.
    I say end it before someone gets shattered.
    Playing with someone's emotions is a rotten game.
     
  5. MovieMan84

    MovieMan84 Here we go

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    I'd say you're ok as long as you're honest. If you string her along and she thinks that a relationship might be forthcoming then you're not being fair. If you tell her on no uncertain terms that nothing more than casual sex will come of it and she goes along for the ride anyway, then I say you're more or less in good shape.

    $0.02
     
  6. RedVsBlue

    RedVsBlue Penguins > *

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    FWB with someone who has a crush on you IS stringing them along. They are just hoping for the chance things can change. Unless you want her to start cockblocking you against every other girl, i would end the FWB with her. Seriously, there are a ton of girls out there, stay away from potential psycho situations!
     
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    Werd!
     
  8. MexicanTaco

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    Sex and keeping communication is very hard. Personally, friends with benefits sucks because eventually one of you will develop feelings.

    For me sex is something I have with someone I can fall in love with and the more you have sex the more feelings will develop.
     
  9. Azn_azzho

    Azn_azzho New Member

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    Werd, same, got few FWB, emotion established very easily. I cannot just do some girls I dont feel anything for. Sigh, sucks that the feelings are all around whatever they call. :hs: Dunno what to feel...
     

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