SRS Friend-zoned ftl

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  1. macistaniMac

    macistaniMac New Member

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    Being friend-zoned sucks.

    First date, introduced to others as "my new big brother." :ugh:
     
  2. GRocks10

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    Damn, thats a bummer. Did you do anything that would automatically place you in the friends zone? any reason at all, were you being overly shy or something?
     
  3. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Whoaaa.... that's bad. :hsd:
     
  4. johan

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    And you honestly thought you were on a date?
     
  5. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    "Whoa," you should have said, out loud, and then turned and left.
     
  6. big 1

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    Maybe you just werent clear enough when you asked her out that your intentions were romantic, not platonic. Where did you go on a date? somplace romantic? did you TREAT her romantically (open door, pay for the bill, dress nicely?) or did you treat her as a friend?
    Its possible she friend zoned you because you werent straightforward.
     
  7. Toasty

    Toasty Naked people have little or no influence on societ

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    Maybe you did something during the date she didn't like and so she pulled the plug.
     
  8. Jay Pheezy

    Jay Pheezy New Member

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    :eek3: You must have gone wrong real early with her. Did you have any deep conversations or anything before taking her out?
     
  9. xinster

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    hey that's pretty nice

    edit: seriously
     
  10. nish81

    nish81 OT Supporter

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    that sucks...anything you could have done to make her FZ you?
     
  11. Geiger

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    just wow, worst case of FZing I've ever heard of. usually it's more of an unspoken thing, but for her to have said that indicates that your intentions were not clear :dunno:
     
  12. Pseudonym

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    sounds bad. FZing usually happens because of something you did - ie to nice,. Find out why this happened, so you can avoid this situation again.:hsd:
     
  13. Stilgar1973

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    Next time a girl introduces you as 'Her new big brother' reach over, grab her ass and give it a good squeeze.
    Alternatly you can give it a good hard slap that will be heard by others.

    That should set things straight with everyone.
     
  14. KUBA

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    sorry man, that sucks... I know it seems hard, but you might keep her around as just a friend. tell her that since you two didnt work out she has to help you find a girl. most girls really like to help guys with that. who knows... maybe she'll hook you up with one of her hot friends.
     
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    You think that will work huh? I think it will be the last time she hangs out with her "big brother".
     
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    ouch, can we get some more details please.
     
  17. art vandelay

    art vandelay OT Supporter

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    sorry to hear that man :hug:
     
  18. kelvs

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    Man that's pretty harsh :eek3:

    How'd you met the girl and how'd you ask her out ? :hsd:
     

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