Why is it that we always take things for granted? I met this girl 6 years ago while overseas. Came to be good friends, and although we live in different states, we've managed to keep in touch over the years. She's always been a good friend to me, but I can't say the same for me. I can think of 4 occasions where we've planned trips, and each time I've cancelled (a few times it was sort of a last second cancellation). I don't know what I was thinking at the time, but I now realize that's a messed up thing to do. I guess she finally got fed up, because she hasn't returned any of my calls recently. I can't blame her. She's been a good friend, and I've done nothing but cause her pain. I realize what a dick I've been in the past, and I'm trying to be a better person these days. How can I save this friendship?