Or maybe its already pretty sour. This story is going to be a bit but I'll add cliffs to the end. So started out 11 years ago I met my best friend. We've been friends for a LONG time as you can tell. Oh yeah I'm 22 so its been quite the journey. We would hang out none stop all the time and still do. Well he started to get into drugs quite heavily. Just pot for that time but he's done other stuff. But pot he smokes all the time. I do it on the weekends and days off you know. So I guess some might think me a pot head. Well when he first started to smoke he wouldn't want to do anything, it really started to affect my friendship with him and other friends. It wasn't just me. I mean I don't care if he smoked because even then I smoked with him. But the way it made him not want to do anything BUT SMOKE. So we had a falling out, he wouldn't contact me and I wouldn't contact him. I wanted to do other things and he wanted to do just that. Well then I started to hang out with 2 other people all the time. For probably a good year we were always together. Well I got back together with my old friend again and he was still smoking but back to the way he was, funny as hell a good person to hang out and we were buds again. Well I stopped hanging out with my other friends because all they ever wanted to do was drink and I don't like to do drink, I don't like beer and vodka is the only other thing I'll drink and even that isn't all that good. Well now they are pissed off at me because I don't hang out anymore. They will call me and I'm already hanging out with the 1st friend, they don't make plans just call me and expect me to hang out that night. Well one of them just got really pissed and pretty much told me I'm being a dick and such. They say its because we smoke pot but I mean its not an issue, I'd love to hang out with them if they weren't dicks about it. I mean its like a huge thing that I smoke. I'm a bad person or something because I do and now its all my old friends fault for the whole thing pretty much. I mean what do I do? I've kind of ignored it up until now because I personally think they aren't being fair and want it their way and couldn't care what I want. So I'm basically in the mind set that well fuck them I'm doing as I please and don't give 2 shits. But as they are friends I do care. Cliffs: 11 year friend had a falling out years ago, got back together and are friends. We smoke, other friends do not. They are pissed I don't hang out but pretty much require I don't smoke at all...ever. Not my plan and looking for advice for friends that are pissed off.