Friend of mine was helping me out with match.com

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  1. DigiCrime

    DigiCrime If Only!

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    felt like sharing this just to weird how the outcome came about. We were looking on match.com just for the hell of it after having a conversation about past dating/finding mates that sort of thing we were thumbing thru profiles and stuff she goes make yourself a profile when you get home. So I did, goes off for approval and it gives you five matches ok... Who is my first match? The girl who was helping me. :hsd: Seriously what are the chances of that happening? I like the girl to but she's seeing someone so it's a no go but just to weird how that played out :hs: ffs
     
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    why is she on match.com if she's seeing someone?
     
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    probably never bothered to removed her profile who knows. She logged into her facebook this evening and I was like I didnt know you had a facebook and I see msgs in there from last year in August she said she nver bothers to check on that stuff so I guess she just never bothered to remove her match profile :dunno:
     
  4. Soren

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    that's cute
     
  5. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    :rofl: Dude. :hs: Match.com tells you how long ago the person logged on and you shouldn't be looking for chicks that haven't logged on for more than a few anyway.
     
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    she logged on to her account because I didnt have one already. why we didnt make one then I have no idea we only looked thru for a few minutes. with that being said i wouldn't have any idea how long ago she logged in or not. I took a screenshot of it when it happened she wouldn't believe me if I told her
     
  7. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    I don't see how that's weird. I mean you are obviously into her and playing the "friend" role. You two must have things in common and live nearby, hence the match :dunno:
     
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    I'm into her yes. I put in st louis zip code since its a more populated city then where I actually live and as I was looking thru the results, up a tthe top the 5 matches it gives you she was the first match that came up that match.com found for me that was what I found a little :noes: not so much that she showed up in the search results. We do have a lot in common so it's obviously why just thought it was weird how it played out
     
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    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    eHarmony sent me a match that was a friend of my gf (who was my 'ex' at the time). That was weird.
     
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    you should tell her about it. Or better yet show her. Might get her mind thinking....
     
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    doesn't match cost money?

    why is this bish still paying?

    ibshehasayearmembership
     
  12. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    You can create a profile and search for free. You just can't communicate without a paid membership.
     
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    JoJoBee Hanging out with my chicks! OT Supporter

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    hmmm - i have never been on a site like this... i would have no idea...
     
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    yea match is free to a certain extent. She know's I like her as to how much care I have for her she probably doesn't truely know but no reason to press the issue she is involved with someone. I think the case with who she is involved with now is she just couldn't find anyone to be with for so long and finally found someone and to scared to let it go because she feels what she has is the best she can get. So thats probably whats keeping her interests.
     
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    why do you think that? Why do you think it's not possible that she's met a great guy and is fantastically happy?
     
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    because its not a guy she is involved with, its a girl. all her past guy/boyfriends have failed so I guess she decided a different route. I didnt know she was involved with a girl until it was to late. She likes guys and girls, this is her first so she said she wanted to try it out.
     
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    so? how does that mean she's not happy?
     
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    Match.com is bullshit. Stop wasting your time.
     
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    I have no idea I assume she is.
     
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    you just said you assumed she was settling.

    She's been in a relationship for a while now. It's irrelevant that it's with a girl instead of a guy.

    Forget about a relationship with her and move on. That's half the reason she got you onto match.com anyways, because she knew you were pining over her, and wanted it to stop
     
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    Could be a good possibility homie.
     
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    it crossed my mind. doesn't mean she wont make a decent friend anyway though
     
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    nope, but stop thinking that she's unhappy in her current relationship, or that you might have a chance, etc
     
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    Never said she was unhappy ?? You asked me, I said I assume she was happy
     
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    If someone is settling, they aren't happy
     

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