Friend at work (married)

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  1. Killuminati

    Killuminati New Member

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    I have a friend at work who's a chick and is married... She bought me something for valentines day but I didn't get her anything because I wasn't sure if it was appropriate. She is a really good friend and tonight I bought her some cheap jewlery on an impulse buy. (she seemed upset I didn't get her anything for vday). I have never had any sexual contact with her but we do flirt... So do you guys think it is ok to give her this jewlery? I just wanted yalls opinions. I have no plans on doing anything with her she's just a friend but she is a dime.
     
  2. 04JETTA

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    i think its fine but just understand shes married so dont let the relationship become something it shouldnt be (not sure if im saying this properly)
     
  3. MattThom01

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    try a card.

    I would be a little curious if I found out some guy was giving my SO jewelry on V day...hell, or any day.
     
  4. jung918

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    no. you could have gotten her something else besides jewelry.
     
  5. HuskiRuski

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    out of line
     
  6. Killuminati

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    This situation is not like my last one...... with the other married chick if anyone remembers....
     
  7. Yuppy

    Yuppy Have a seat right there....

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    what. the. fuck.

    you dont buy girls your not fucking jewelry. especially married ones.
     
  8. CaiWooBlue

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    unless you are sleeping with someone, you dont buy them:

    jewelry
    flowers
    sex toys
    anything with little hearts on it.
     
  9. Elphaba

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    Exactly. Think about the conversation she could have at home...

    Husband: Oh, those are nice ear rings.
    Your coworker: Thanks, Killuminati got them for me for Vday.
    Husband:Grrrrrrrrr.

    What kind of woman expects vday gifts from male coworkers on vday? And, if her husband doesnt notice them, or she hides it from him, what kind of person does that make her? Why would you want to get into something like that? (not that I'm saying you're really trying date her or anything, but you'd probably be part of some marital discourse...)
     
  10. Killuminati

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    Her and her husband aren't really getting along.... But that's not my problem, but I guess I shouldn't fuel the fire. What am i gonna do with the jewlery now? The place does not do refunds. I'm gonna tell her I got it and ask her if she would feel comfortable receiving it from me...
     
  11. Viper

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    No, it's not ok.
     
  12. Elphaba

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    How is that any less "fueling the fire" than actually giving it to her?? Just keep it and give it to your mom/sister for the next holiday/birthday that rolls around. Hell, sell it to a friend for their gf or someone.
     
  13. chlywly

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    Umm definitely NOT okay to buy her jewelery or flirt, are you stupid?
     
  14. Mangina

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    WAY out of line!!
     
  15. HuskiRuski

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    delete this thread. you will obviously give her this jewelry (or do some passive-aggressive shit that's just as bad) no matter what we say. you're just looking for some reassurance from the rest of us that it's ok.

    well it's not. but that's not going to stop you.
     
  16. Yuppy

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    wow you really are a prick. i dont think people can be that dumb.

    just fucking return or give it to a different person.

    and dont fucking tell her about it.

    god your a little creep
     
  17. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :bowrofl: Are you completely incapable of realizing you do inappropriate things with/for married women? Are you so much of a scumbag that you have to prey on every woman who is married in hopes maybe her marriage is rocky enough for you to put the moves in?

    Christ dude, you don't buy a married woman jewelry :rolleyes:
     
  18. jmezz

    jmezz layin in bed stretchin my pumped quads for hours

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    Honestly, every time I read a killuminati thread I think it's the same fucking thread over and over. I can't even tell if it's with different women or the same one. At the very least you must be mildly retarded.

    Dude get a fucking life and stop messing with married women. One of these days someone's husband is going to be crazy enough sort you the fuck out and you very well deserve it.

    Douchebag.
     
  19. Viper

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    Oh wow, after all the comments in this thread, I went through your thread history.

    Damn. I think it's time to ask yourself why you find yourself attracted to emotionally unavailable women.

    I'll be straight, I find myself attracted more to women who have boyfriends and are married, but I also have the morals NOT to do anything with them. I've reasoned that I find them more attractive because there is no chance it will go anywhere because I know I won't pursue it beyond a certain point.

    The reason *I* am this way is I think that I am afraid of getting hurt so I find girls who I CAN'T do anything with to be more attractive because I know it won't go beyond a certain point...yet I like the attention.

    Yet, you on the other hand seem to have no qualms for trying to get these girls to break up with their boyfriends/fiances/husbands, so that can't be the reason. Is it the 'wrongness' factor? Are they more attractive to you because it's "taboo"?

    This is a pretty serious problem to have dude and you don't seem to have any sense of reality that it's wrong.

    Or, you could just be trolling. :rofl: You fuck. You fucking fuck. :rofl:
     
  20. MattThom01

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    suck it up as a loss. Hell, put the jewelry away at home somewhere and save it for if/when you find a single woman.

    True story, I didn't realize that the OP was Killuminati....

    I think you need some therapy or something, you should KNOW better than to start getting attached to another married woman.

    Two things to think about. And I want you to REALLY think about them.

    1: You have this fascination with married women. Why?

    2. You say this woman isn't getting along well with her husband. Assuming you two did get together or what not, WHY would you want to be with a woman who admits to having relationship problems, but does nothing to resolve them?

    You sir, are looking to be a case in point for the saying "those who do not learn from history are doomed to repeat it".

    You've gotten involved with a married woman before, and it didn't work out. And now you're starting out on the path to do the same thing with another married woman??

    Finally...just because she flirts with you, does not mean you have to flirt back. You're setting yourself up for failure.
     
  21. antihero

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    wtf is the matter with you man?

    do not do it. Don't talk to her about it, don't give it to her.
     
  22. Bob Brown

    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    if you are really going to keep going on based on the fact that you can't return the jewelry, you might as well go up to the husband and ask him to kick you in the balls 50 times.

    keep the jewelry for when you actually have a proper girl with no significant other and one that you are not paying for.
     
  23. Emfuser

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    :nono:
     
  24. zhiniibob

    zhiniibob CLUB ASTROS NOW OPEN OT Supporter

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    definitely not a good idea..


    :uh:
     
  25. Project X

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    your a faggot... shes married buddy let it go and move on to the next one. who the fuck buys jewelry for friends.. what the gay
     
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