former FB wants to come over on sunday

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Falconer, Jun 27, 2009.

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what do i do?

  1. invite her over and have some hot sex

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  2. no dude, you need to get over your ex first. this will just fuck you up emotionally

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  1. Falconer

    Falconer OT Supporter

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    you guys know my situation.

    it's not that im missing sex (even tho my ex and i had the best sex ever). i miss the love. i miss snuggling with her and how she smells and feels. obviously i miss the sex but i miss all the non-sex stuff more.

    anyway, my former FB is good in bed so im sure the sex would be hot. she gives head, wears heels, is a screamer, etc., it's good stuff.

    should i fuck her? would it help me get over my ex? i've never been in this situation before. i don't know what to do.

    edit - fwiw, the fb is a 7. it's only physical with her (which is why we were just FBs before and not bf/gf). we're not on the same wavelength at all when it comes to most stuff. there's no inside jokes, no cuteness, no same-wavelengths-moments. just hot sex. lol.
     
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  2. Ford4Life

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    Yes, you should fuck her. Take all the anger and emotion in you right now and use it to bang her like a drum. :bigthumb:
     
  3. just_another_on

    just_another_on New Member

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    Fuck her hard.
     
  4. Nomad

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    honestly its up to you dude, do you feel up for it? if so pound away, if not, sit in the corner and cry while using your tears as lubricant to masturbate
     
  5. Falconer

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    i like snuggling after sex but not with her :rofl:

    i even made myself do it once (years ago) and didnt like it :rofl:

    its so weird.

    the sex was always super hot tho.

    chemical attraction is a weird thing.
     
  6. k624ash

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    go for it dude
     
  7. Falconer

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    people voting no, explain your reasons.

    have you been in this situation before and done it and it was a bad idea?
     
  8. Nomad

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    Falc, what would you say if someone were in the same sit as you?

    that's your answer
     
  9. ww_Crimson

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    It's not going to help much, in fact with you I think it might make things worse. You tend to overanalyze things a lot and I have a feeling sleeping with a FB this quickly would really mess with your head. You'll be thinking about your ex, you might not perform to your own expectations, and then you'll be all down in the dumps.
     
  10. Ford4Life

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    I don't know. One way to get your mind off an ex quicky is having another hot, naked and willing woman in front of you.
     
  11. Falconer

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    dunno, this is a first for me, hence the poll.
     
  12. antihero

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    do it if you want to. If there really isnt any real desire at all on your part you aren't going to enjoy it much.

    if there is a bit of you that says "might be fun" it probably really would help to do it.
     
  13. Bi-Polar-Bear

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    It all depends how long ago you and your ex broke up and if you are over her yet. If you've had a month or so to get over the initial emotional stress then I'd say go for it! If you JUST broke up I think it may fuck with your head....especially when you realize how inferior the experience will be overall compared to your ex. That will just make you miss her even more.

    It's your call man. A good mindless fucking session can do wonders if you're stressed :naughty:
     
  14. Bacardi 151

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    If you want too. :dunno:

    I still think you need to work internally though. :hs:
     
  15. Midgetized

    Midgetized Don't mess with Douche Cat

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    The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else :naughty: do it!

    who knows whether it will fuck with your head or not, only way to know is to find out :dunno: no matter what happens you're still getting laid, amirite?
     
  16. jonno

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    it may or may not help you get over your ex. either way, do it.
     
  17. MissKitty

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    You have hot sex with a FB because you are over your ex - not TO get over your ex.
     
  18. Bacardi 151

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    Good point. :hsd:
     
  19. notsousual

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    While MissKitty makes a good point, I think since you've never done it before, what's the harm in trying? If it's hugely detrimental you know you'll have the strength to get through it, and in that case...you'll know never to do it again in the future.

    If it doesn't mess with your head, then no harm done and again you'll know this for the future.
     
  20. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    This is Falconer though...
     
  21. notsousual

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    True. But he'll either analyze it to death and do more damage than he would if he just went through with it...or jump in head first and figure it out for himself. I'm not saying it will be beneficial or it will harm him, just saying he should figure it out for himself cause it's something that would probably be good to know.
     
  22. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Knowing you, you're going to feel worse after, not satisfied.
     
  23. antihero

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    just do it. it surely isnt going to make the situation worse.

    sure you may freak out and compare the sex to your ex, but hell, i bet you are thinking about your ex all the time anyway.
     
  24. GTLifter

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    If it were me I would do it but then again I'm not an analyzer like you and this wouldn't affect my ability to get over an ex. Tough call.
     
  25. XaPU!M

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    Where did this rule come from? Can't you just have sex for the sake of having sex... he doesn't have a gf now so he needs to get sex somewhere :dunno:

    And I know Falconer is smart enough to not suddenly fall for his FB, so who cares if he is or isn't over his recent ex?
     

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