I found out my girlfriend just cheated on me 10 days before I come home from Iraq with her Ex. Apparently it was a one night stand and she got closure from it.... What do I do when I come home? I still love this girl. Does she get the privilege of seeing me when I come in, or at all? She's trying to sabotage our relationship before I come home I know it. She thinks I deserve better and is scared of me coming home and leaving her.