Forgive her?

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  1. signal

    signal New Member

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    I found out my girlfriend just cheated on me 10 days before I come home from Iraq with her Ex. Apparently it was a one night stand and she got closure from it....

    What do I do when I come home? I still love this girl. Does she get the privilege of seeing me when I come in, or at all? She's trying to sabotage our relationship before I come home I know it.

    She thinks I deserve better and is scared of me coming home and leaving her.
     
  2. DaFreak963

    DaFreak963 New Member

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    you should leave her. There i sno reason for you to trust her anymore
     
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    She couldn't wait 10 more days? She probably cheated before this time too bro.
     
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    Leave the bitch, she only wants your money.
     
  6. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    Yep, leave her, no excuse for what she did!
     
  7. signal

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    No money involved
     
  8. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    To refute some of the excuses you made for her, so you can see things a little clearer

    1) Its probably safe to assume you've been in Iraq for quite some time now, and you two started dating before you left since you're in love, so closure isn't a reason for sleeping with her ex because they've been broken up for some time now.
    2) She isn't trying to sabotage your relationship because she feels you can do better. If she truly loved you, she would do her best to become that better person she feels you deserve.
    3) To be honest, I feel she isn't in love with you anymore. She's making excuses to ease the guilt, but its all just bullshit.

    Just move on when you get home, girls get wet from dudes coming back from Iraq :bigthumb:
     
  9. just_another_on

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    fixed
     
  10. Ford4Life

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    Dump her.

    There is no way this is the first time she's cheated while you were deployed either.
     
  11. signal

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    I see what you're saying. I believe that the heart grew fonder at first but forgot towards the end.
     
  12. Ford4Life

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    You were coming back in 10 days. If she was that horny, go buy a dildo.

    She only told you because she probably thought you'd find out when you got back anyway. By telling you while you are still in the sandbox she didn't have to tell you face to face either.

    Dump the fucking whore.
     
  13. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    Cause you do :hsugh:

    THIS.

    Highlighted so you read it again.
     
  14. signal

    signal New Member

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    I'm hearing it lima charlie (loud and clear)

    All I know is I'm getting on a plane tonight and getting the fuck out of here.
     
  15. Vysion

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    You can do better. Move on. And welcome back home.
     
  16. signal

    signal New Member

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    I don't recommend LDR's to anyone no matter how good things are going before.
     
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    fuckin :werd:


    Tell that bitch to eat a kawk, and no.. not yours.
     
  18. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    :hug: Have a good flight and welcome back home! :hs: Keep us posted.
     
  19. signal

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    I'll be back in 10 days to let you all know

    Thanks
     
  20. Joybang

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    Fuck. I can't even imagine that feeling. Dude, you deserve waaay better. I would just tell her you don't need to see her and be done. I mean, what happens when you go away for training? Or another deployment?
     
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    Glad to see that you're gonna make it home safe. Dump the girl though. :hs:
     
  22. signal

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    You're right. I don't plan on going on another deployment, fuck this shit.
     
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    I am sorry she cheated :( no I dont think you should take her back..
     
  24. wolfskymoon

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    I would say don't take her back, but you can probably beat her up abit before you leave her. I think soldiers can get off easy, just say you were going through Post war stress disorder.

    j/k but honestly why have sex 10 days before you are suppose to come back? why not do it earlier. Either she is lying to you about not cheating on you before that, or she did it for some other reason (psychological).
     
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