For some reason, I can't blow my load during sex!! Please help!!

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  1. itsallaboutvegas

    itsallaboutvegas New Member

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    So I met this smoking hot, and I mean really hot girl, and after about a week, we decided to go all the way. She is amazing in bed, and is really good at giving head. I love to see her naked because she has an absolutely amazing body. The only problem is, after messing around for over an hour, and I'm so turned on, I can't blow. I usually have to jerk myself off just to get off. I don't get it. My friend says maybe I'm just not into it, but I know I am, because she is so damn good at what she does. Does anyone have any suggestions, because I am so embarrassed everytime, and I have to come up with a different excuse(i'm running out of excuses).

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  2. HuskiRuski

    HuskiRuski Cardinal Fan

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    have you ever blown your load before during sex?
    for some reason, you're just not comfortable, which is preventing you from letting go fully.
     
  3. itsallaboutvegas

    itsallaboutvegas New Member

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    I'm really not sure what it is. I can sit in front of a porn and jerk off for 2 mins and blow, but when I have a hot ass girl doing everything to me, I can't get off. I used to be able to blow while either getting head or sex, but now it seems impossible
     
  4. d3cromanc3r

    d3cromanc3r 79 Слизняков

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    just out of curiosity, what were the excuses you gave?
     
  5. Jay487

    Jay487 What's Life If You Ain't Enjoyin' It?

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    i couldnt either at first. still usually dont the first few times with a new person.

    for me its being nervous and insecure. could be the same for you :dunno:
     
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    AsIfSetAfire New Member

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    I think it's just the new person type thing because I have the same issue... It's way better than finishing too fast methinks :hsughno:
     
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    I had the same problem the last time I had sex. Being nervous, buzzed, and high ftl. But mostly from the nerves imo. We wrecked each other though as we were both sore everywhere the next day.
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :kiss: Good job my love.
     
  10. Ep

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    what the fuck are you complaining about lol... bang her until she pisses out, then whack off in the bathroom

    chicks will love you
     
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  12. Ladybug

    Ladybug Guest

    ^fact.
     
  13. AsIfSetAfire

    AsIfSetAfire New Member

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    1. They try a lot harder
    2. It's much better than not being able to make her finish
    3. ????
    4. Profit
     
  14. chlywly

    chlywly Active Member

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    Sounds like you have some performance anxiety.
     
  15. imhisgrl85

    imhisgrl85 New Member

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    Your body is trained, because it is used to when YOU jerk off, not when a girl tries to get you off. Try teaching your body different ways.

    EX: When a girl masturbates by only giving herself clitoral stimulation her body gets trained. That is why some girls cannot get off during straight intercourse.

    Heard it on Lovline years ago...

    [​IMG]
     
  16. Ladybug

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    So he should jerk off until he's almost there, then stick it in her and go for it? Could be worth a try OP
     
  17. mavfan1

    mavfan1 Active Member

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    how about just don't jerk off for like 5 days...then you should have no problems


    well except you may blow in 2 minutes instead
     
  18. Ladybug

    Ladybug Guest

    :rofl:
     

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