For Guys Who Lament their Girlfriend Dumping Them

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  1. Chip Chipperson

    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    This was a response to someone else's thread... thought it would be useful to some of you guys here...



    Dude, you need to rip your fucking head out of your ass. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. You should not be talking to this girl anymore. At all. Not a single word other than finance and the children. Nothing. She deserves nothing and talking will only damage your own internal psychology. You are holding on because you believe you have no net to support you. You know what happens when you realize that she can't hold you forever? The fall hurts a lot more.

    Stop being a fucking whiney bitch. I know it hurts dude. But so does taking off a band aid. Sometimes you have to do certain shit because it's what's good for you in the long run.

    Stop looking for what will make you feel good now and realize what's good for you in the long run. In 5 years when you're looking back on this shit and how you handled a lying cheating twatbasket cumguzzler, do you want to be looking at a picture of how much of a small dicked, small testicled pathetic loser you are, or do you want to look at a picture of a man who knows what he deserves out of life, knows what his personal boundaries are, and knows what he will simply not tolerate from other people.

    That is the reason that she is cheating on you, you have lost your iron claw grip on your own life and your sense of deservedness. But the good thing is that this shit is fluid; you just need to spend some time changing your internal thought patterns and belief systems and realize that you can and you should grow not just as a person but as a MAN.

    Think about your male role models. How would they act in this situation? Think about it. hard. Would they do what you're doing? I doubt it. Sack up dude, sack the fuck up. You have a DICK dude, that is god's GIFT to you, you are a MAN. Now act like one.
     
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    pretty awesome words i must say
     
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    Man speaks the truth.
     
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    Sybian She's with me...

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    Troof. Once the sadness wears off you'll realize how much of a fag you were for feeling bad... Bitches are a dime a dozen...

    Just one week ago I was the sorry pathetic loser JKidd speaks of. Now I see all of the meaning in his words. We're human and losing your girl hurts. It hurts like hell, but realize there are so many more out there. And each one is better than the last.
     
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    eightvalve Reformed Lurker Crew #1

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    Every time i start to feel the slightest bit down about m break u. i think about how deep down I genuinely despised listening to her go on and on about every second and problem of her day, and how i love the quiet i experience now. Then i feel great!

    I'm sure I'm not the only one.
     
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    I would find it relieving to be dumped; that's a guilt-free ticket out of the asylum.
     
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    good post
     
  10. iceman1123

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    :hsugh: the only truth in that post is the part about shutting up and moving on. You cant blame yourself if you're dealth the cheating whore hand in this game. You never had your "iron grasp" to begin with if shes cheatin on you. sorry chief.
     
  11. Chip Chipperson

    Chip Chipperson New Member

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    sorry that you were cheated on bro :hug:
     
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    iceman1123 Guest

    thanks for the sentiment but i wasnt.
     
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    skitcy uhm title! ok

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    If a girl is gonna dump you. It should be the best damn day in your life. YOU GET TO FIND A NEW ONE. What's more fun!!
     
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    Reminds me of that Taking Back Sunday song, "You're so Last Summer"... just the other way around, which is--I guess--a mentality the OP is bashing.
     
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    moses OMGWTFBBQ

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    my favorite thing to tell myself "what would bond do?"

    it typically involves having a drink, maintaining composure, and fucking the hottest chick in the vicinity.

    Or better yet, what would Han do? this is good also.
     
  17. iceman1123

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    :hsugh: something tells me your plan involves more drinking and fewer "hottest women around"
     
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    post pics of yourself iceman :hsugh:
     
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    moses OMGWTFBBQ

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    in for pics.

    and my plan rules.
     
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    iceman1123 Guest

    sure
     
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    :mamoru:
     
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    sticky or archive
     
  24. Chip Chipperson

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    Heh, thanks man but I don't think Big Sister here is much fond of me
     
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