Not my psycho ex, fuck her. in fact, i did have a dream about her a few weeks ago where she wanted to fuck me and i told her "no." Go dream-state Falconer! No, the ex in question here is my first love ex. I broke up with her about 7 years ago after a 3.5 year relationship. She's married now and has a baby IRL. In my dreams I was talking to her, and experiencing intense sadness over the fact that we weren't together anymore. The dreams didn't really make much sense, as tends to be the case with dreams , but I remember feeling massively intense sadness and regret at dumping her in my dream. And then I'd wake up and the sadness would instantly fade to about 5-10% and then fizzle out over the next minute or two. What is going on? It's rare for me to experience such powerful emotions in my dreams, and this one happened twice in 3 nights. Anyone ever have emotionally powerful dreams about exes? 7 years later? I know some people are big into dreams. Theories? Go!