FML..

Discussion in 'Vaginarium' started by Slinky, Aug 25, 2009.

  1. Slinky

    Slinky New Member

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    background: im 24, g/f is 21...we have been dating for over a year in a LDR..she moved in 1 month ago, i pay for apt rent and 2 cars, she chips in a little for groceries


    CONS
    -no job
    -taking classes to be web designer but doesnt like the idea of spending more than 2 hours per day on the computer :ugh:
    -has a 2 yr old (kid is pretty cool though) from previous marriage
    -sits around the house all day and only cleans my (small) apt maybe once per week and acts like i should reward her for doing it
    -has made me dinnerz maybe 2-3 times during the month we've lived together
    -went out to a club by herself tonight for open mic night to audition while i sit at home with her sleeping kid :ugh2:

    PROS
    -has a vagina
    -fun to hang out with at times


    How the fuck did I get myself into this? Am I over reacting here or am I getting the shit end of the stick, cuz it sure seems that way. What kinda advice can you give me? (besides kicking her to the curb)! or just an outsider's opinion on it would be nice. later
     
  2. NUTZAHOY

    NUTZAHOY Misa > You

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  3. Slinky

    Slinky New Member

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  4. MissKitty

    MissKitty If squats were easy they'd be called 'Your Mum' OT Supporter

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    Talk to her about the rules of the house. Everyone needs to pull their weight.
    If you don't have the talk with her she can claim she never knew you wanted her to do stuff. Bitches are sly like that
     
  5. kiri

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    abort
     
  6. antihero

    antihero OT Supporter

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    dude, shes only doing this because you let her. You really should try to set her straight before throwing in the towel.
     
  7. ForgottenSpiral

    ForgottenSpiral Hope and Irony OT Supporter

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    That shit isn't cool, man. I agree that you should try and talk to her about it before you give up, but man if she doesn't change her tune- fuck that shit.
     
  8. Emfuser

    Emfuser Nuclear Moderator Super Moderator

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    Nga you dumb :rofl:

    You're her sugar daddy (for her and her kid) and you're just now starting to notice?

    :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :uh:
     
  9. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :uh: no vagina is worth that bullshit
     
  10. vodkacollins

    vodkacollins New Member

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    make house rules. if she isnt going to help pay rent, then she is going to do a lot more "work" around the house. if she doesnt want to do the work, then tell her she owes you X amount of dollars each month for rent, utilities, etc
     
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  12. THoC

    THoC New Member

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    you're over reacting. she's a feeble woman who could not possibly pull her weight in a relationship like the rest of them. men should take care of their women while they do little to nothing. :ugh:
     
  13. wolfskymoon

    wolfskymoon Guest

    You are probably paying alittle extra for whatever she provides you. Not that bad really lol.
     
  14. Vysion

    Vysion New Member

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    Kick her lazy ass out.
     
  15. kristaliah

    kristaliah New Member

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    Sounds like you're grown up and she's not even close to.

    Plus seeing as how the only pros were that she has a vagina and is ok to hang out with makes me believe that you'd be fine with or without her.

    I wouldn't bother having a "talk with her" about how she needs to get a job or whatever, the girl isn't ready to grow up and you'll be selling yourself short by giving her second chances.
     
  16. Lucky Penny

    Lucky Penny Mr. cut me some slack cause I don't wanna go back,

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    KRIS!! Clean out your pm's!!
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    And to the OP- it's still early on. Bail before it gets worse babe :hs:
     
  17. MCohen

    MCohen #NotMyPresident #AmericaIsAlreadyGreat #GoSolar OT Supporter

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    Dude, come on, its pretty obvious she isn't pulling her own weight. Tell her to start or leave.
     
  18. ldaggerl

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    Agree with everyone else, tell her the rules and if she doesn't like them kick her ass out.
     
  19. Nuhlinga

    Nuhlinga Whaa gwaaan papcaann?

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    she's 21 with a 2 year old?..:rofl:..from a previous marriage?? :bowrofl:

    and you expected a normal relationship?
     
  20. Yail Bloor

    Yail Bloor OT Supporter

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    what a loser
     
  21. saosko

    saosko OT Supporter

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    Easier said than done.
     
  22. Dreams2Reality

    Dreams2Reality saywhat

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    Nail on the head!
     
  23. JBunni

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    Definitely talk to her. Even if she is going to school she can at least get a part time job to chip in. Plus if shes home all the time, she should be able to do more house work and at least cook. Theres nothing wrong with being a house 'woman', as long as she does it right. Also, you might want to mention, that if things dont change, she should leave.
     
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    Knowing is half the battle.
     
  25. Arkaybee

    Arkaybee New Member

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    You sound like me 4 years ago. I would have put with that for as long/longer than this but you need to lay down the rules.

    Tell her that you expect a certain level from her and if she doesn't like it then she can find another place to stay. She will bitch a moan and probably cry and maybe even hit you but don't give in.

    My buddies let a chick with a newborn crash at their place with no job. They let her know that she will be cleaning the house and making dinner EVERY NIGHT OF THE WEEK. She did all that so she was able to stay for like 2 months until she found another place to stay.
     

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