Flirting with the girl cutting my hair...

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  1. MattThom01

    MattThom01 New Member

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    So, I had my short work day today (1-5pm). I decided to go get a haircut...walked across the street to the local CostCutters.

    I was served by a young lady...looked to be early 20's. Started doing the normal small talk that usually goes on during a haircut, seemed that conversation was easy and flowing well. Seemed to laugh and smile at a lot of the things I said. Found out that she was done with school, worked full-time there. We were talking about how thick my hair was, she mentioned that she used to see a guy who had thick hair and she loved to play with it. I asked "I didn't quite hear that, did you say you are seeing, or were seeing the guy?' She said she had been seeing him, but he moved or something.

    I asked her if she stays pretty busy in her free time with friends (she said she is usually out with friends at the bars and such, often being the DD).

    I mentioned near the end that I would have to get my hair cut by her again, she gave me her card, I ended with something like "well, I'll probably see you in about a month or so".

    Of course, after I leave, I realize I should have maybe found out when she got off work..but I thought it might have been too soon.

    Thinking I might go in in a few days some time when she is working, maybe with the excuse of seeing what options there are for coloring my hair...find out when she gets off and see if she wants to go out for a drink or something that night or the next night, etc.

    What do you all think?

    I realize that hairdressers and similar service providers are supposed to make small talk and such, but there did seem to be a good enough level of chemistry to maybe pursue it a little further.

    Never really done this before either.

    Thoughts and advice would be appreciated.
     
  2. 04JETTA

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    i think u should go for it jus b urself
     
  3. kEVOgt350

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    go bak in and ask her to trim the rest of your hair :naughty:

    im not sure what i'd do. i don't see any way of going back in there without looking very obvious, but maybe she'll find that cute? :dunno: on the other hand, if you don't mind waiting a month it could be a more unexpected and pleasant 2nd meeting. you could strike up another good conversation and warm up to her a little more before asking her out.

    up to you i guess. hope it works out for you.
     
  4. Atheist

    Atheist oh, hi OT Supporter

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    It's so easy to get turned off by how many other guys might flirt with a girl but that of course is when you have to convince yourself that you could be the best one out there -- she IS single, after all. Nothing wrong with competing with other guys, especially when you can't see them!
     
  5. demosnat

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    Please. Please, for the love of whatever you may worship, type out the entire freaking word. Please utilize capitals and punctuation, I can't stress enough how important this is if you want to be taken half way seriously.
     
  6. Falconer

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    So if she rejects you would you still go back there and let her cut your hair in the future?
     
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  8. Yail Bloor

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    You have nothing to lose.

    Ideally, you would have gotten her number during this first encounter.

    If you like her, request her phone number!
     
  9. BlazinBlazer Guy

    BlazinBlazer Guy Witness to The De-Evolution of Mankind.

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    Ideally, her number would be on the card he gave her.... or so I would think.

    Comming from someone who also has thick hair and has been in a similar situation before, let me make a suggestion: Go back in about a week or week and a half, and say you don't need much cut off of your hair, but you need it thinned out because it's too damn hot when it gets thick. Use that as your opportunity.

    I once got a laugh (and later a number) when the "thick hair" comment came up by saying "Hey, at least you're thinning it out for me; now maybe people will stop saying I'm so thick headded!" I know it usually isn't orthodox to joke about yourself, but if you have the right attitude it can come across as confidence that you're secure enough to joke like that.
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Props on you slyly asking her again if she was dating that dude. Very well played. Good luck to you :)
     
  11. glass

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    i've also done some flirting with the girl who cuts my hair, and the quote below encapsulates my situation well. well, the fact that i like how she cuts my hair.

     
  12. 04JETTA

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    sorry :iough:
     
  13. Morbid

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    i think you are over analying a bit too much.
     
  14. danewreed

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    drop in for a suggestion on shampoo?
     
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    I would just book an appointment in a day or two and say "hopefully my hair has grown enough to cut it again because I totally couldn't wait another month to see you... we should probably go for a drink or something because if I keep this up i'll have a shaved head by next week"
     
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    ROFL :rofl:

    every thread, same response, same retard typing

    i fucking love it


    yah man, u should go for it, jus b urself :bigthumb:
     
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  18. MrMakaveli

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    I didnt read your full post, but I came to ask if her breasts were swaying while she leaned over to cut your hair, one of them by chance making contact with your cheek .. or perhaps even sliding across your lips?
     
  19. MattThom01

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    LOL...this is real life, not a pornographic movie. I'm thinking I will go sometime in the next few days to see if she is there.

    I realized I do have a legitimate excuse...I don't have any wax for my hair (I occasionally like to spike it up).

    I'll walk over there about noon I think, she said she works in the afternoons.

    Looking back, I don't know if was really into her, or just enjoying the flirting. Right now, asking her out doesn't seem that big of a deal. But I think I will do it anyways, at least for the practice.

    Oh, and if she rejects me, yeah, she can still cut my hair. All I'm going to do is see if she wants to go out for a snack or a drink or something...it will be no big deal if she says "no thanks".
     
  20. danewreed

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    let us know how it goes Matt!
     
  21. Jackie Treehorn

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    I tried to ask out a girl who cut my hair once. What a awkward pathetic display that was on my part :o "I have a boyfriend" was the response, in front of several people. Haha, nice.

    I can never gauge whether or not people who's job it is to be friendly are interested or are in fact just being friendly. I have nothing to offer in the way of advice on this one. Good luck to whatever you decided.
     
  22. MattThom01

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    Ok, update:

    Walked over there, she was working again. Talked about how I was looking for some wax or gel to occasionally use to spike up my hair. She gave some good advice, talked about the stuff she really likes, talked about how certain ones have a good smell for guys...she commented about how she wouldn't want to use a guy smelling one and smell like she had her head in a guy's chest all day...I laughed.

    As I was talking to her I got a better look at her...blond, slender, little bit taller than me, looked to be about a B cup (pretty much the type of girl I like).

    I asked when she got off, she said 5, I asked if she was doing anything, she said she was going to a BBQ with friends and was excited because she didn't have to cook. I decided not to push anything as I just wasn't getting the vibe.

    On the way out I asked about when would be a good time to come get my hair thinned out, she said in about 2 weeks. I said I would probably do that.

    After I pay, she asks if I need anything else, I say "That's it, I shouldn't need to come back for a bit, don't want you to think I'm stalking you..."

    She says "no, I don't think that"

    I wrap up by saying "I might come in sometime when it isn't busy and chat with you or keep you company or something".

    I didn't really have any awkward feelings or uncomfortable silences...

    Now I think I'm about 50/50 on the issue of asking her out. I mean, I'm not feeling a huge urge to, but I am also enjoying this whole ecxperience just for the practice.

    It feels really good to just get out and start talking to/flirting with a woman!
     
  23. MrMakaveli

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    maybe a little too much chit-chat at the end .. "bla bla not a stalker, but I will come visit you again and again and again"

    I would have asked her if she want an extra sausage after the bbq tonight.. that would have told you what was up right then and there.

    Seriously, good luck with it. Remember to setup the hidden camera before you bone her!
     
  24. Yail Bloor

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    Never, ever mention anything related to stalking, unless you are accusing her of doing it to you. Or maybe talking about girls stalking you in the past.

    She now officially thinks you are creepy.

    The more times you go back to see her without inviting her on a date, the slimmer your chances are going to be.
     
  25. MattThom01

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    oh well. While I was at work tonight I was chatting with a new coworker...chatted about job stuff for a bit, got to asking what she was doing after work tonight, was about to ask her if she wanted to go out after work, then she mentioned something about her bf working til 11.

    Oh well. I am however, encouraged by how easy it is getting for me to just approach women and start engaging with them in small talk.

    Really looking forward to going to the free concert downtown next week...

    It's amazing what living on my own has done for me.
     

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