I have a few questions: 1) Why is it embarrassing for a guy (more so than for a girl) to still be a virgin by the time he turns 20? Is losing your virginity to some random person before you turn 20 really going to be that satisfying, just to say that you lost it when you're 19? 2) Is it really complicated to lose your virginity to a friend than to a bf/gf? Is it ok to lose it to a friend w/ benefits (who happens to be your ex)? 3) To the guys out there, when you lost your virginity, did you care if you lost it to someone who you cared about (meaningful) or just did it to have fun regardless of the person? 4) To the girls out there, do you think it's better to wait for someone special to come along to lose your virginity or just lose it to a good friend but not have it mean so much, if the friend is just a guy who wants to lose his virginity too but has no preference to whom?