First time having sex

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  1. Kerberos

    Kerberos New Member

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    I had sex for the first time today. It lasted about 2 hours until she decided that she was too tired. I did not manage to have an orgasm. However,
    she seemed to have had half a dozen. She wasn't loud about it but that's the number of times that I felt her vagina become much tighter, it was almost painful.

    What did I do wrong, why didn't I manage to have an orgasm? Should I have faked it?
     
  2. razi

    razi New Member

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    were you wearing a condom?
     
  3. Kerberos

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    yep
     
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    Good for you!

    unfortunately, this might be the cause of it. some are too thick, which limits sensation. Find a thinner one. I've had good luck with the Trojan Twisted Pleasure and... I can't remember the other brand.

    That and if you "fly solo"... stop. It'll desensitize you.

    Other than that, don't worry about it. Considering how you treated her you get a round of applause (esp. on the first go! you're a precocious little devil!).

    Don't be concerned about this... yet. If this continues, switch brands until you find one you like.
     
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    :rofl:

    i'm sorry, that post is just really funny to me.

    i think a lot of guys can't finish their first time because they're nervous. once you become more comfortable you should be able to. but wtf 2 hours??? :ugh: that is a long session. too long, if you ask me.

    and no, don't fake it :rofl:
     
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    Yeah, I know, I met up with her at 3, then when we were finished it was 6pm. Count in an hour or less of foreplay, and yes 2 hours.:eek3:
     
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    Alright, I'll look into different condoms.
     
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    Trojan Supras ... if you can find them.
     
  9. Kerberos

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    Also, after our session, my condom was covered in and my bed had puddles of what appeared to be sperm. But couldn't have been me. Should I be concerned?
     
  10. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Should you have faked it?

    Would you want a girl to fake it? I doubt it, so why would you fake it? That's the dumbest shit I've ever heard.
     
  11. maks

    maks Bah! t(-_-t)

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    girls get sore. Alot of sex newbies think long hours of sex = great sex. Try to have fun and relax, and be kinda selfish. Maybe that will help you climax.
     
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    my first time i lasted about 45 minutes, mainly b/c I was nervous as hell since my parents were down the hallway in their bedroom. try thinner condoms though....i particularly dont like condoms b/c it takes away a lot. my current g/f and i use condoms most of the time though b/c she freaks out about getting pregnant (even though she's on the patch).

    Crown Skinless Skin condoms are probably the best.....i think they're the ones porn stars use.
     
  13. CodeX

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    Get her on the pill and then ride her bareback. There is a world of difference
     
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    my gf is on the pill and wont let me ride bareback :cry:
     
  15. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rolleyes:
    and then beg her to get an abortion when she still gets pregnant
     
  16. CodeX

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    4 years and counting.
     
  17. CodeX

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    ROFL!

    The girl lubricates herself if you are doing a good job lol, an hour of foreplay should do it :rofl:
     
  18. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Your'e sterile.
     
  19. sparq

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    Till you catch super aids
     
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  21. sportsjunkie

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    the pill is highly effective in preventing pregnancy

    if they want to give it a go to see the difference, there really isn't a problem
     
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    i last about 2 thrusts and i'm done when i'm sober :o

    but then i don't use condom's.
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    Yes I know it is 99% effective...still doesn't mean it's fail safe and prevents diseases. He can do whatever he wants, I just cannot stand when so many guys are like "Oh I got her on the pill so now I can raw dog it with no problem!" And then she gets pregnant and they either throw a shit fit saying she has to get an abrotion, or freak out that they now have to pay child support, or decide to get married for "the sake of the child."
     
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    chill dude, give it 5 times just to relax... if you arn't cumming by then make a new post
     
  25. maks

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    This reminds me. I had a five year LTR, no condoms, no birth control. Im either a pull-out ninja or a sterile sucka









    :wtc:
     

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