First time going this far with a chick

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  1. phrozen11

    phrozen11 New Member

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    Hey all...so im 16, and i have made out, felt a chick up, got some hand and stuff like that but ive never gone so far with it as her actually giving me a full BJ or a full hand (she was just rubbing it and stuff...)

    but tonight im hanging with this chick who i have been with for a while and she told me she is ready to go farther with me and actually give me a full HJ or BJ..

    This may sound kind of silly but i really wasnt sure but should I masturbate before she comes over so that I can hopefully last a little bit or do you think she is looking for me to ejaculate ? Because I have the feeling if i masturbate before she comes over I may or may not be able to jizz right away but im really not sure if she wants me to or not. I have no problem if I have to put it in a kleenex cause she doesnt want to take it or anything but Im not sure if a girl would want me to ejaculate or not? without bringing it up to her

    may sound silly and amateur but i think we were all here once, so i would love a little help

    thanks
     
  2. R.Kelly

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    I wouldnt jerk off beforehand. Its not like you're trying to last forever. And why wouldnt she want you to ejaculate? What would be the point of that? That is like me being like "hey man, here is a bunch of beer, but don't get drunk!"

    and try to go for a bj. Handjobs suck IMO.
     
  3. Toxica

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    I wouldn't suggest getting off before she comes over. She will want you to come. If you think you might blow your load too early, then just ask her to slow down (or stop) when you feel it coming.

    Also, you should try to turn her on first by rubbing her or eating her out. That way she'll get horny and be more into it... maybe willing to do more than a handjob.
     
  4. +(ll.ll)+

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    I wish someone told me before to jerk off on my first time. Would've lasted more than 15m instead of 3m. :hs:
     
  5. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    :rofl: I love young inexperienced guys, too funny.

    Do not jack off prior. Not only would she not care if you came quickly, she'd actually feel proud of herself. Young inexperienced girls don't think in terms of "oh man, he came so fast, what a loser!" They are too busy stressing about how they have no idea what they're doing.

    Not to mention-she could suck ass at both hand and blowjob, so if you don't cum she's going to feel inadequate.

    Just chill, see what happens, and don't be surprised if your nerves keep you from cumming at all.
     
  6. jonno

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    just whip your dick out and make the noise:

    BOINININININININIINGGGG
     
  7. Dahlia

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    You obviously haven't received a good one. :hsugh:
     
  8. alkalinesolo

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    Most guys can give themselves a good handjob. That's not to say that it isn't good, but it's at the bottom of the sexual pleasure spectrum.
     
  9. BoomBoomBoy

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    Jerk off at least 10x. Make her work for that orgasm. :rofl:
     
  10. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

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    Most girls can't give a good one. :hsugh:


















    Though a lot of them think they can :hs:
     
  11. BoomBoomBoy

    BoomBoomBoy Guest

    You're dating the wrong girls. :rofl:
     
  12. XaPU!M

    XaPU!M Active Member

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    Apparently :dunno:

    Though I can't even remember the last one I had, it really is the last thing I'd want a girl to do :dunno:
     
  13. Deborah

    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    exactly!!! Who wants handjobs? lol
     
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    Bob Brown bewshit, bewshit, bewshit

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    Deborah Seeing is believing, but I don't want to know.

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    greenpillow New Member

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    so that means no hand jobs.
     
  18. Viper

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    :roflw:

    The girls I've been with couldn't even give a decent blowjob, I can't imagine how horrible a handjob would be.
     
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    phhhhhhhh.. I get a shit ton of lotion hahaha as Whitecouch says "the worst i ever had was pretty darn good ;)"
     
  20. freckleface

    freckleface expose the raw nerve and get on with our lives...

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    DITTO...very good point beer!


    BE SAFE...EVEN WITH A BJ!!!

    USE A CONDOM
     
  21. JohnJohnJohnson

    JohnJohnJohnson Effetely Sipping My Latte OT Supporter

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    do not jerk off beforehand. the best thing is for her to be encouraged about her ability to make you feel good. no need to last long.
     
  22. Viper

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    Agreed. The "jacking off before hand" thing really just pertains to having sex. When it comes to bjs/handjobs, I'm pretty sure that short-n-sweet is what a woman is after there. I mean, who wants to spend an assload of time giving head?
     
  23. iwishyouwerebeer

    iwishyouwerebeer you shut your cunt Moderator

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    My SO looooooooovvvvveeeeessssssssss handjobs. Maybe because I give them almost as good as him :dunno::rofl:
     
  24. freckleface

    freckleface expose the raw nerve and get on with our lives...

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    :bowdown: me too!!! LOVE IT
     
  25. antihero

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    umm.. shes 15-16. she likely has absolutely no idea what shes doing.




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    You do realize we have been practicing every day since we were 13 right?
     
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