FRK first time anal

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  1. Suicide Pinai

    Suicide Pinai flawed if i'm not free

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    so ive never done anal. the closest ive ever done was getting fingered up there with a pinky once and it hurt like hell, but that was a long time ago, i dont know about how itll be now. im going to do it for the first time with my bf over xmas break cuz i really wanna do it with him.

    hes done it a few times with his ex....but i just want to be prepared :hs:

    so any tips or helpful hints i should know about?
     
  2. Phantom Empress

    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    I suggest a LOT of lube and Patience. DON"T let him rush you.

    Poop about an hour before had to clean everything out. Take a nice hot relaxing bath (you can do this togetehr of course to aid in prep)

    Warm up, maybe get in a lot of foreplay, get really relaxed and into it. Maybe work in playing with your pussy/clit andyour ass atthe same time. So while you are stimulationg someplace that is already pleasurable, you are easing into the anal venue. Start with a finger, then two, maybe even 3 till you feel relaxed and ready for his penis. then lube him and yourself Liberally and ease him in. GO SLOWLY getting him in there, little by little. Get and inch in, stop and relax around it, Get another insh in, stop, relax around it....

    Then when you are all the way in, have him stroke SLOWLY till you find a rhythm that is comfy, all the while playing with your clit. Don't expect an orgasm your first time, but it's possible, as long as you are comfy and relaxed.

    Just remmeber the key words here: SLOW, LUBED, RELAXED and you should do fine.
     
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    :bigthumb: perfect answer
     
  4. Suicide Pinai

    Suicide Pinai flawed if i'm not free

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    am i supposed to like take an enema before to clean it out? i dont know sorry. i honestly know nothing about doing anal
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    you can if you want. though for me, an enema is best a few hours before (early inthe day) becasue you HAVE to get ALL of the fluid out of you or you will be uncomfortable/you'll make a WORSE mess.

    Just eat some fiber the day before and drop a nice duece 1-2 hours before.. You'll be fine
     
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    Boo439 Punish the deed, not the breed!

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    Exackery! :bigthumb:
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    what i may also suggest is you do some anal play on your own with out him. GEt a toy or just use your fingers and masturbate and anally finger yourself..

    I became VERY comfy with anal becasue I got used to it and learned to enjoy it on my own first. Once you know how it feels, how you react to it (good or bad) and what clean up may be involved I think you'll be more ready to make it an enjoyable experience with your partner.
     
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    Suicide Pinai flawed if i'm not free

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    thanks, this is really helpful :) cuz hes done it before and i never have, so hes a bit more experienced, but everywun is different and his ex was just really easy to do it with i guess
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    you're welcome. :wavey:
     
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    Wow. That's a ton of prep work. For us a lot of the time it's just like: Shove it up there real fast and deal with the excruciating pain for a second or two (cuz it's fun) then carry on with the backdoor pleasure dance.

    But sometimes he's nice and licks it before he sticks it :mamoru:

    (love you, aphoric)
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    i'm just saying for her first time. For us it's lube it up and go.
     
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    Suicide Pinai flawed if i'm not free

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    would doing it doggie the first time be ok? or is it usually too much then?
     
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    Yeah. I see where you are coming from :mamoru:

    God, we are such big asswhores. :love:
     
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    xela So say we all!

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    The most comfortable starting position for me is spooning on your side.
     
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    Phantom Empress mmmmmm tasty!!!

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    For me it's most comfy, My ass is too big for anything else. Try being ontop so you can control how deep and how fast.
     
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    I never knew there was so much preperation...any time ive done it its always been spur of the moment and pretty easy :noes:
     
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    Suicide Pinai flawed if i'm not free

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    ur ass isnt too big, its perfect :naughty:
     
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    I think this is the way to go - that way it is something you are doing to yourself - he just has to be still and let you adjust at your own pace.

    I also strongly suggest getting a butt plug (or something similar) and exploring the sensation on your own first. Being nervous can, well, cause you to clench. That hurts.

    Good luck, it's lots of fun!
     
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    One suggestion that one of my female friends said when her and her bf did it was that once it initially goes in your first inclination is to clench your anal area. What she suggested was to relax your anal muscles and to not be to uncomfortable was to actually create the sensation of pushing(kinda like when you push to take a number 2) She stated this was useful for it to not hurt because if you are sitting on the toilet and are taking a number 2 you are pushing outward to release "shit" obviously. Now when you do actually start to have your bf inside of you, as he is entering you relax down there and push and what happens is you are allowing the muscle to stretch with ease thus making it easier for him to go in and out and easier on you.
     
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    I really like laying on my stomach while he is on top of me. And then if you would WANT more, you can just push your ass back towards him. FULL ON doggie style anal to me would hurt like hell...

    The first time anyway :naughty:
     
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    xela So say we all!

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    That's a good position too.
     
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    Girls don't poop. :hsughno:
     
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    JonnyBlazeRSP Hustlin's in my veins - you cannot stop it - Walki

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    thats why i have no problem tossing a little salad.
     
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    JonnyBlazeRSP Hustlin's in my veins - you cannot stop it - Walki

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    and that glisten needs to be licked up.
     

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